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He cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why is he ignoring me?

Profile: joyfulcece87
joyfulcece87 on Mar 31, 2018
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he probably ignoring you because he worked things out with his girlfriend or it was just a one time thing
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 8, 2018
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Firstly, Maybe he felt guilty after cheating for some reasons such as religious beliefs, personal morals or values, cultural norms and so on. Secondly, he might be that kind of person who like fancy girls if it is right to say or like to do sex not more than that. Thirdly, he might not have a value which is called loyalty in relationships so for him relationships are equal to friendships or doing sex is something not connected with relationships, so basically, he think of the logic that we can do sex with someone that we do not love. Fourthly, he maybe he cheated because he was curious about how it does feel to have another relationship or just sex with someone else, so he did it just to know better the value of his girlfriend. Lastly, there could be other reasons which might be not common.
Profile: SebaGhanem
SebaGhanem on Apr 19, 2018
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He may just feel guilty for doing that, it is a horrible thing to cheat so maybe he wants to ignore his mistake. Don't put too much pressure on him, try to understand his point of view.
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Anonymous on May 9, 2018
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Perhaps because he feels great deal of guilt and shame or he may regret it altogether? perhaps he decided to give it a 2nd shot with his gf?
Profile: SeekApotheosis50
SeekApotheosis50 on May 13, 2018
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I'm sorry he isn't being more up front with you about what's going on. Unfortunately, he is the only one who really knows the answer to that. But if I were to guess, he probably has feelings for both his girlfriend AND you, which is pretty confusing. One of the feelings he might be experiencing is guilt about cheating.
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Anonymous on May 18, 2018
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Maybe, because he wants to make things right for her and him. Also, he is a jerk!
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Anonymous on Jun 21, 2018
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I see. May be you should ask him this question and see what his reasons are? There are many reasons why people do what they do.
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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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He might be ignoring you because his girlfriend found out and threatened to leave him if he didn't stop talking to you.
Profile: OneBeathAtATime
OneBeathAtATime on Jul 1, 2018
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There are many possibilities. Could be guilt that he cheated. Could be that she found out and is now monitoring him more closely. If you really care for this person, the hardest thing to do is realize that he did something wrong by 1. Cheating 2. Ignoring his mistake by keeping you in the dark 3. Realizing you were part of a mistake. It's all hard to take in.
Profile: Allears247
Allears247 on Jul 25, 2018
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Perhaps he is regretting is choice and maybe is considering being faithful to his girlfriend. Maybe he didn't take you as seriously as you thought? It could be a number of things honestly.
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