He cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why is he ignoring me?
beekind13
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May 20, 2020
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Because he is a cheater. Well, the problem with a boy who cheats his girlfriend with you it's that he isn't accountable and so he will disappear or ignore you. You are not the problem, he is the problem. You deserve a man who will love you in an exclusive and special way, you don't deserve a man like this because if he doesn't see the importance of being honest with his girlfriend, he won't see the importance of having a long and beautiful relationship with a girl. I don't know exactly why he is ignoring you, but I know that a man like this is not the man for you.
Anonymous
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Aug 29, 2020
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Self love is essential. People cheat on their partner for many many reasons, some of them could be that they fall out of love, others might be that they were just bored. Being cheated on is one of the most painful experiences for some people, if this person did not care about this girlfriend, he, most likely won't care about you or anyone else either. His girlfriend deserved respect, and you do as well. But respect also starts with ourselves. If we do not care of ourselves first, we do not love ourselves or do not respect ourselves, no one will either. If he cheated on his girlfriend with you, and now he is ignoring you, he is probably not worth your time.
Anonymous
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Sep 19, 2020
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If you knew he was with another woman, what made you go out with him? Do you think that just because he cheated on her with you, that you are someone special to him? Perhaps he is in love with his girlfriend and realizes he made a mistake when he went out with you. Perhaps you were just a fling. How does that make you feel? Do you think things would be better if he paid attention to you while still going out with someone else? And, if he did dump the other woman for you, what makes you think he would be faithful to you?
Caringbud
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Oct 11, 2020
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Maybe he come to his sense, and rethinking about his relationship with her girlfriend and how much it means to him. You need to have honest talk with him, so you both can know the reality and move on. Do you really see yourself having a future with him, you need to think about that and consider all possible future factors , is it a healthy relationship or not?! Every think will be only known for sure , when you both have a honest talk about it. I understand how you feel, but you need to be emotionally strong in situations like this.
Tblaney1234
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Nov 5, 2020
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Hi!
After reading through this, I can only imagine the emotions you are going through. However, from personal experience, it is potential that he is ignoring you to make it right with his previous partner. Simply put, he could be trying to convince his girlfriend that you are not a threat to the relationship. This is very likely not because of something you did. It is very likely the man you slept with is very confused about what he wants, or more specifically, who he wants.
Im sorry, I know situations like this can be extremely hurtful; I hope you find this to be helpful!
Actuallynobody017
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Nov 9, 2020
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Hello. Thank you for the question.
It could be that you both are feeling guilty of it. It could be that he doesn't know what he wants in a relationship. It could be that you are feeling guilty yourself.
Does he talk about marriage ? Do you talk about it ? Are you both in a serious relationship ? Is the relationship emotionally connecting you both ? It could be all these things why it is not working.
He may have no moral responsibility towards you or your ex. You are now feeling dejected for stealing someone's happiness and not feeling better. I hope this answer helps a bit. Take care. Be true to yourself.
circusmirror123
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Apr 22, 2021
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There are many reasons he might be ignoring you, but it's best not to make any assumptions without talking to him - you never know he's really feeling. He might be going through a lot or have a lot to sort out considering the situation, but oftentimes they might just need time! He could be feeling anxious about his relationship, he may be regretting his actions if he feels he has hurt his girlfriend etc, or he might just need some space right now. If you've reached out, all you can do is wait and hope that he is alright.
Macaronip
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Jun 6, 2021
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He may be feeling guilty, or unsure of his decision to cheat. This is not a reflection of yourself. This is a reflection he is making of himself. It is likely not a personal front to you. Give him time to reflect and find his own answer to the dilemma he has created. Do not take it personally. He has made a big decision and will need to address this before he can make his next move. Take this time to think on your part of the issue. Address how you feel about the situation. Do you feel any specific emotions about it? Why?
Anonymous
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Nov 21, 2021
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Often times, the individual who cheats on their partner is not sound in character. Breaking an active commitment is a red flag, and should not be ignored. If they are still together, his girlfriend may have asked him to cut contact with you in order to rebuild their relationship. If they separated, he may be attempting to regain her love, or simply realized that he needs to work on himself. It is also important to ask yourself if this is a person you truly want to be in contact with you. If he has a history of breaking commitments, it is not reasonable to expect that he would maintain a commitment to consistent communication with you.
Genesis094
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Dec 10, 2021
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The first reason is because he is regretting his decision to cheat over his girlfriend with you. Once you find out that he is regretting his action of cheating over his girlfriend with you, it is better for you to leave him. When you do something bad and you know that it is actually bad there will be an internal conflict in your conscience. He is having the same conflict and still trying to figure out which decision is the right decision for him. Having you as another girl aside from his girlfriend shows that his emotion is not stable and he does not know what decision he should take
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