He cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why is he ignoring me?
Anonymous
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May 5, 2019
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Maybe he realized cheating on his gf was wrong. Or maybe he wasn't serious with you. But I would suggest you to ask him directly why he is doing so instead of assuming why he is ignoring you. Assuming why he is ignoring you won't give you any answers. There could be two reasons : either he made you believe that he will leave his gf and come with you or you didn't ask him anything and believed him that he would leave his gf and come to you. Whatever the reason maybe you have to right to ask him your questions. I hope this helps you. 😊 Good day.
AprylFools
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Sep 20, 2019
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He may be ignoring you because he's realised that what he was done is wrong and made the situation worse by bringing you into it. Avoidance of conflict is a natural human response - especially when there are things at stake.
In cases like this, there is little you can do other than give him time to acknowledge the situation and his place in it as well as yours. When he has figured all this out in his own time, he may speak to you again, or he may just move on entirely. No one will really know what he intends to do other than himself, so unfortunately the only thing you can do is wait.
Joye74
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Nov 5, 2019
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I personally feel that It's not okay to entertain someone who is in an exclusive relationship. That hurts everyone involved. Also, I think cheating happens between two empty people. They don't have any happiness to offer each other. All they can offer is complains and saddness from other partner. These are all my own personal observations. So if he is ignoring you, then he offered his saddness in the relationship you had. He probably may not have anything else to offer you. I feel very bad everytime someone entertains a cheater or escalates things to cheating it hurts family and many times childeren.
slackwired
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Nov 9, 2019
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Sometimes people feel insecure in themselves due to low self-esteem,
They seek validation in others as it makes them feel good about themselves,
They also want the benefits of a long term girlfriend or partner,
Clearly they are drawn back to that partner and are now scared that this infidelity will be revealed,
Their behaviour in ignoring you is not your fault and you are a valuable person,
It is more a reflection of the man in question,
If you were together he would also cheat on you too,
It is important to value and love yourself and realise you do not need others to define this for you,
You are good enough.
Anonymous
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Jan 8, 2020
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He could be ignoring you because he feels guilty of his actions, hurting you in the process. He did something that can be unforgivable to someone who loved him. He could either be a bad person or you are a reminder of his bad actions. Regret is a strong emotion, and so is guilt. It is not your fault that he made a bad choice, thus hurting 2 other people in the process. He could be ignoring you because he is upset at himself but you must not put yourself down because of him. Again, it is not your fault.
carefreeHeart
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Feb 9, 2020
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well, from my personal experience, if someone is cheating on someone with you, they may lose connection because of regret. maybe him and his girlfriend broke up, or she figured out she was being cheated on. people usually end up feeling regret when things are ended, you never miss something until you lose it. he may have realized his mistake for cheating on her. he may have found his love for her. i do not agree with cheating, so therefore i would bever let someone get into a relationship with me if they are already in one. you will most likely find someone, don't let him bring you down too much.
rachsxo
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Feb 13, 2020
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This is a tough situation for anybody to be in. It's very likely that he probably just feels bad about cheating and wants to get his relationship back on track. He's probably trying to ease his guilt by severing contact with you in order to get back in his girlfriend's good graces. I know it must be confusing for you especially if this had been an ongoing thing and not just something that happened once, but he seems to be prioritizing his girlfriend at the moment which can't be easy for him given that he cheated in the first place.
Anonymous
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Feb 15, 2020
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Perhaps he regrets cheating on his partner, not because of a loss of feelings for you, but because of his conscience. The conflict within his heart and mind. Perhaps he realizes that yes, whilst he has feelings for you, that is not the way to go about it all.He feels wrong but doesn't know what to do. If he went out of his way to cheat on his girlfriend, it means he really likes you or love you. But, at the same time, he knows that it was wrong to cheat on that poor girl. Don't worry. Just go up and ask him yourself as to why he is ignoring you.
allyswift
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Apr 15, 2020
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I am really sorry to hear about this, you didnt deserve to be cheated or treated like this.
I assume that he may feel embarrased, ashamed, scared to face you or in the worst case scenario, i am afraid to say that that he may have moved on. Please take care of yourself. Dont let someone who hurts you or treats you worthless to have chances to upset you. Maybe, after a while he may message you or respond to you.
If you are comfortable, you can always talk to me or any listener here. We would love to help you feel better.
JacoEM
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Apr 17, 2020
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There could be a lot of reasons. It depends on the context of the situation. Was it only a physical thing, was it also emotional? Now, it depends also on the frequency. Was it a one time thing or was it something continuous? It is time to really pay attention to see if what he said were his intentions matches his actions. It is likely that he's ignoring you because he feels regret and does not know to deal with it. It could also be because he is confused and is unsure as to which will be the next step between you two and between his girlfriend and him. And unfortunately, sometimes the infidelities are only a one time thing and does not imply that he was looking for something else. Either way, remember to give the importance and attention to people according to what they have earned.
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