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He cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why is he ignoring me?

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Anonymous on May 17, 2016
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Maybe because his girlfriend doesn't know or he hasn't told her yet? He may find it easier to distance himself from you until he knows what he's going to do regarding that situation
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Anonymous on May 18, 2016
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He might feel uncomfortable in his conscience and is trying to sort out the situation. Hope this helps!
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Anonymous on May 18, 2016
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He may feel regretful of the situation, or just confused in general. Maybe you should try texting him first!
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Anonymous on May 27, 2016
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because he is probably feeling guilty for doing such a dishonest act and/or he realized he did a non loyal thing by cheating on his girlfriend with you
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Anonymous on May 27, 2016
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There are so many reasons he could be ignoring you. If he isn't making you a priotity, then he is not worth your time and you should move on and ignore him when he contacts you back. I was with someone during my breakup and went back to my husband, he feels I ignore him. I can only explain from my experience that if he didn't leave and stay gone (and choose you), he will have you as second best on his list, not a priority, if you allow him to.
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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2016
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Maybe he feels guilty about the pain he's caused you and his girlfriend. He did the wrong thing by cheating on her, he may realize his mistake now and wishes to keep you out.
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Princessonablackhorse on Jun 12, 2016
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Maybe he is going through a guilt phase, or maybe this time he is cheating on you with someone else..... All the best and good luck!!
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Anonymous on Jun 30, 2016
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It's probably because he realized that cheating on his girlfriend was a mistake. don't take it personally and I think you should find someone who really supports and cherishes you.
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RileyStruger7 on Jul 28, 2016
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He may feel ashamed he made the decisions he made. Or he's trying to figure himself out. Give him time to come around.
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Anonymous on Aug 13, 2016
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We all have a code of values. Some we learn intuitively, some come from society or family. When we violate these values it can be difficult to make sense of ourselves leaving us feeling confused and guilty. Which in turn can lead us to turn off from what we have done on an emotional level. Ignoring you is a way of not confronting this inner conflict that he is contending with.
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