Do I miss the person, or the relationship?

Honestly, from my own personal experience, it's both. When you spend all of your time and energy into this one person, you end up getting very attached and soon even - maybe - you're allowing yourself to be vulnerable with them. Being with someone can often be comforting. Having a relationship is something lots of people want. You really do miss the person, as well as being romantically involved with them - however that looks for you - and it's such a shame that's so sad when it all ends. It's not wrong to miss either one - person or relationship - it's natural and normal. But know this, it also depends on the person. If they were abusive to you at times and then other times they were everything you've ever wanted, it's most likely that you are missing being in a relationship with them. So just look at your life; that relationship: was your partner heaven or hell? In the end, was it all worth the heartache? Thank you so much for your time...