Did I do something wrong for us to break up?

To understand this better, let us first know what is a breakup? A breakup is the discontinuity of a relationship but doesn't guarantee if the related connection is broken or not. Labelled connections between the two souls is termed as a relation. For a connection to breakup, there could be various reasons like: 1. Different priorities for the individuals. 2. Incorrect timing between the two. 3. Trying to improve other, while all are unique, different and perfect in their own ways. 4. Non-acceptance of the other person the way they are. And countless more.... But what form the principle is the two souls are sometimes incompatible for each other, whether in terms of priorities, timing, ideas, nature, strengths, etc. Breakup is just, two souls not fitting in each others space, and that is completely okay. Taking up the guilt or self blame, is not a healthy choice, its just sometimes the things don't workout, the way we wish too. But one should always be optimistic and know, whatever happens, happens for the best.

It takes two to have relationship and the break up. If there is a break up there are two reasons: one of the two or both of them can be responsible. It isn't worth taking the full responsibility. It is cart which runs on two wheels. One wheel cannot drag the cart long. It is worth reviewing the past but for future relationship to fix some habit related annoyance to the partner. However, one cannot predict what what other partner would care or not care. It is worth try to find the reason from other partner but romantic relation when it ends, expecting an honest feedback isn't possible.

Have you asked about the break-up? As in talking about what happened? This can be a challenging time and it's understandable that you can be feeling stressed, sad, sometimes depressed if your relationship was serious and lasted for a long time. Did your relationship have any red flags or warnings that impacted how you acted around/to one another? Are you okay? Can you tell me how you are feeling and if you are able to talk to your Ex about what happened and ho you are feeling? This can always help if both are willing to listen and communicate.