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Did I do something wrong for us to break up?

Profile: erinjmuller
erinjmuller on Dec 23, 2014
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It depends on the scenario. If for example you cheated on him then yes, you did do something wrong. If for example you two just mutually broke up then no, it just wasn't meant to be.
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Profile: CaileighGrace
CaileighGrace on Dec 31, 2014
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You may have, but you shouldn't beat yourself over it. People make mistakes and no one is perfect. If you and the other person work resolve the conflict, they should be able to forgive and forget. After you apologize and they refuse to understand, it wasn't meant to be.
Profile: ColourfulThorns
ColourfulThorns on Jun 23, 2015
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It does not mean you have done something for both of you to break up, it just simply means that another person is already got bored. I did not mean to say that you are boring..maybe it is their nature to easily get bored of something/someone. All in all, it is not your fault. Maybe you guys are just not meant to be or he/she is not the one for you. Do not blame yourself for everything that has happened.
Profile: angeliquenloves
angeliquenloves on Jul 6, 2015
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Compatibility will not be the same with every person, it is never your fault, neither is it your significant other's fault. No one can control their feelings and their ability to control certain situations. Certain quirks may be too much for one person to handle, but someone else may be looking for that quality.
Profile: SimplyKim
SimplyKim on Jul 28, 2015
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I cannot say "yes" nor "no" because I don't understand the circumstances, behind the break-up. However I can say that everyone goes through break-ups at least 5 times in their lives at minimum. (Sometimes less). Remember that disagreeing is how we learn to find people who we can better associate with. While it may seem you're to blame, remember it's part of life.
Profile: SkiiiWalker6
SkiiiWalker6 on Dec 22, 2015
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Sometimes we hurt people and don't realise, communication is important as it allows for you and the person you're with to openly talk about the problems you guys are having. Good communication means to actively listen, even when you don't agree, and try to understand where they are coming from. The common mistake people make when being told about their wrongdoings (whether you knew or not) is to jump into defence mode. A relationship is not a war zone where someone has to win, where one attacks and the other is always defensive. Patience and willingness to understand goes a long way, a simple "i am sorry, i didn't realise you felt like this" goes a long way. Listen to understand, not to reply. Lots of love x
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 4, 2016
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You should ask , but maybe you didnt it was just him/her .He/She didnt see a future for your relationship, so they just gave up , don't "beat"yourself up for it, they lost you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 7, 2016
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Probably not. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be and you have to learn to accept that. Somebody will come and you won't even remember your ex, you'll be so happy
Profile: globalHope81
globalHope81 on Jun 5, 2018
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No, as long as you were a great mate, that's all that counts. At least you tried, it was them not you!
Profile: lindaeu
lindaeu on Jul 17, 2018
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Not necessarily, for the break up there are a million of reasons. And for sure it is not only one person mistake
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