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Did I do something wrong for us to break up?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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Maybe yes, maybe no. But it doesn't really matter. If your other half loves you so much, s/he could've done something to keep your relationship working. And also you, you could've done something other than blaming each other.
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providenceOlive on Nov 29, 2014
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A lot of people blame themselves for breakups, thinking that it's their fault or it's something they did. However, usually it just means that something wasn't working out. Little things you do don't cause a person to break up with you, that's just a minor detail. Breakups happen for a multitude of reasons, usually stemming from something deeper, doesn't necessarily have to be personal either. Sometimes people feel like they have stepped into a relationship too soon and aren't ready yet.
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Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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Well? The best way to find out is to talk to the person openly. However.. A break up does not always mean you or the other did something wrong, it could simply mean that you two might not have compatible personalities.
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stongertoday2014 on Nov 26, 2014
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Keep in mind people have their own opinions on life. You may not have made him or her happy on some things but they were with you at one point? They love things about you. Don't think about who did what this does not help anything.
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Anonymous on Feb 13, 2018
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Sometimes in a relationship you're not always the problem it's the other person and sometime that person needs space or alone time to figure things out.
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Anonymous on Nov 27, 2014
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No. Relationships require two people at all times. No person is singularly responsible for anything regarding the relationship. If you both wanted to work at it and be together, you would be together. But if you aren't both a team and wanting actively to be together, that's when you break up. You both have to want to be in it and you both have to feel fulfilled (or benefit) from the relationship to stay together.
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Anonymous on Apr 10, 2015
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No. Sometimes people just drift away or have miscommunication. The best thing to do is sit down and talk. If that's not possible just know you are worth love and are beauty and move on.
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Anonymous on Apr 22, 2015
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This is the most asked question in break ups. 9 out of 10 times the answer is a big fat NO!!! You didnt do anything wrong. Stop telling yourself that, it will only make you feel worse. Trust me. It helps when you see yourself as the good person in the relationship rather than the bad one
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Anonymous on Dec 3, 2014
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It is normally both parties who act wrongly causing a relationship to break up so don't feel guilty about it as it may have been both of you. Relationships can also just drift apart being no-ones fault at all, people's lives are very different and your life may not have interacted well with your partner's. Maybe you wanted different things, maybe it just became a habit rather than a want and a need for the relationship. Whatever it was, please don't blame yourself and know that you can be without your partner. You know yourself best and you know you can be without your partner. Stay strong.
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worldtraveller on Dec 8, 2014
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Don't just blame yourself. Everything is two sided. Everybody makes mistakes but that doesn't mean it was only your fault.
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