Can or should I ask my significant other to stop talking and to not associate with his ex? If so, how?

If you feel as if you should, most definitely ask. Try to be as assertive as possible and if it makes you feel uncomfortable voice that. Make sure you tell them why exactly you are asking. You have every right to ask, just make sure you guys are alone and that the tone of your voice is very stern and clear. Try to make sure that they understand where you are coming from. It can be hard to ask a question where you are asking someone to cut off all ties with a person you really care about and you might feel like you don't have courage to, but trust me you do.

If you feel it’s hurting you go for it, he should respect your decision and should be willing to compromise for your relationship if he dearly wants it to work, but it also depends are they in good terms are they overly friendly there’s the possibility that they still have feelings for their ex and if its hurting you go for it if they don’t want to then there you go you have your answer dump him/her!! If they truly care they will here your wishes but don’t give them an ultimatum try go on politely cause it can show that you don’t trust them and that can hurt them

Relationships have to be based on trust. Do you have a fear that he’ll cheat on you with his ex? Or leave you for his ex? If you truly trust him, you’ll be able to overcome those doubts and trust him. A lot of people can become friends with their exes after breaking up and that’s okay. As his significant other, you can’t really control who he associates with or who he talks to without becoming overly controlling and beginning to spiral towards an unhealthy relationship. If you’re really having doubts and concerns it can be helpful to have a one-on-one conversation with him so that both of your sides can be heard.

Yes it is 100% okay to tell your significant other to stop talking to their ex. Communication is key in a relation ship so ask them to talk. Start off with your observations then tell them your feeling towards the situation. Don't get angry with them they'll come off angry too. So make sure you stay calm while talking to them about your sentiment towards this situation. I hope that will help you how to approach your significant other on this situation. If it's okay can I ask for your feedback on this. And when youre done you can come back to talk about this.

First of all, I think it is better to ask yourself "How does this situation of your significant other talking to his ex make you feel?" "What makes you feel that way?" "Are those feelings under your control that you could learn or do something about them to lessen them?" I understand that most of us wouldn't feel comfortable to know that our significant other still holds some connection with his/her ex while being with us in the present. It is important to choose the appropriate approach to talk about this. After you come up with the answers from above questions, you could maybe try to focus on communicating how this makes you feel to him. Remember that he has full right to decide what he wants to do about this, it is not our right to tell others what to do because that could lead to resentment from your significant other in the long term. I think once you communicate using "I-statement" and focus on telling how you feel without judging his behaviour, he might be more willing to understand you, situation, consequences and decide later what he can do or at least explain to you further to lessen your discomfort.

Some people don't have a problem with their significant other talking to their ex and others do. It is entirely up to how you feel. If you personally are unhappy and upset that your significant other is talking to their ex, you should talk to them and let them know. You should call them or meet with them in person. I feel like texting does not really get the whole point across. Your significant other should stop talking to their ex out of respect for you and your feelings. I wish you the best and I hope everything goes well.

Hopefully you and your significant other were both honest about your exes and such. As partners, we have to look out for this behavior (asking to stop talking to people/not associating with people) just because that can be one of the signs of a toxic relationship. That isn't to say you can't tell your significant other how them talking to their ex makes you feel. And you can ask them for reassurance, because it seems to be bringing out an insecurity from you (it isn't bad to note this). Even if you request this though, you cannot control if your partner stops talking to them or not. That is their choice to continue doing that, and you can choose what to do from there.

Hi! I am sorry to hear that you having some trouble with your sig-o. I would say its not unreasonable for you to have a discussion with your sig-o. But, I would consider thinking a little deeper as to why your sig-o talking or associating with his ex makes you feel this way. You should definitely look a little inward and ask why his talking to his ex bothers you. But also I think its reasonable to open a dialogue with him and tell him why you are feeling this way. Do you think that he will be unfaithful? Is that the root of your anxiety? I would definitely urge you to talk through your problems with your sig-o. With this I would likely look inward and think why this is bothering to me so much. And I am more than willing to chat more if this proves not to be fully helpful.

If you suspect that there is something going on talk to them but don’t tell them not to talk or see them again. This create an impression of control in the relationship. If there is something between the partner and the ex then it’s your choice on how you proceed. But always be aware of the jealousy deep down if you do continue the relationship and take sometime before you make the decision to think things through. Don’t get angry if something is going on. If anything you should be thankful you found out when you did. I hope this helps!!

Say that it makes you feel uncomfortable and as if they are still thinking about their ex (which they shouldn't be if they are with you already). Nobody should have to deal with that. They either need to stop thinking about their ex and associate their ex for you, or they need to get of your life. Simple. You deserve better. Remember that, okay? Please connect to more listeners for some tips and advice. I'm sure if you would like them to help you, they would be kind enough too. Or you can search it up on the web.