Can or should I ask my significant other to stop talking and to not associate with his ex? If so, how?
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Updated: Sep 21, 2024
Danicalifornia
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Apr 15, 2017
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I believe you shouldn't have to ask your significant other to stop associating with their ex. They should know whether they can or cannot spend tie with them based on their feelings and you should be able to trust their decision.
Anonymous
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May 14, 2017
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No, I don't think so! That's something he has to decide if he wants to do. You can not just ask him to stop talking to his ex if they may be good friends.
Anonymous
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Jun 21, 2018
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You shouldn't. Try to ponder over the reasons why are you upset over him talking to his ex. Then maybe try talking to him.
Anonymous
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Jun 27, 2018
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no you should not, he or her is aloud too, unless its somthing bad. then talk to them about it. you don't have to worry
FireIntensity
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Jun 27, 2018
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You can and should communicate with your significant other if you are ever uncomfortable with anything. It is the matter of how it is approached. Sit down, have patience, remain calm and reasonable to why you may be uncomfortable. Negotiate on how this situation can benefit the both of you because after all, a relationship is about two people.
Anonymous
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Jul 6, 2018
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Have you thought of speaking about how you feel to your partner,? If you speak to them and open up, together you can find a way around this issue.
dangermother
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Jul 8, 2018
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It seems that you feel conflicted towards what you would feel comfortable talking about with your parter, is that the case?
Anonymous
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Jul 11, 2018
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On personal experience, simply ask to have a conversation with your significant other, and explain how it feels to you and how you can come to settle an agreement that settles the matter. But remember it goes both ways, how can you help your significant other's concerns?
Pops103
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Jul 15, 2018
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This is a very difficult one! My ex is still my best friend and I would be absolutely devastated if he got a new girlfriend and she told him to stop talking to me. I know you’re insecure but honestly they are probably just friends and nothing more. Voice your concern for sure, but please don’t make him cut contact
Iamhereandicare
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Jul 18, 2018
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Communication is very important. Is this causing problems between the two of you? If so you need to let your partner know. Just tell them how you feel and do it in calm manner. Do not accuse. Let them know it makes you uncomfortable. Listen to what they have to say. Then you try to work on what's best for you.
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