Will I always remain quiet and shy?
JHakuro
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Apr 11, 2017
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That's entirely on you! Being quiet or boisterous; welcoming or shy, these are just traits that encompass you. It's endearing to be shy, it shows a person who can really look into themselves and by proxy others around them to make others comfortable. And to be quiet is such a rare trait, to listen and to learn without injecting yourself as the center of every conversation is admirable. Whatever path you take, choose the one that makes you grow in better ways.
PaxImperia
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Mar 26, 2018
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While there's nothing wrong with being quiet and shy, you can take an active role in becoming more outgoing and social if that is something you would like to do.
Anonymous
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Jan 11, 2021
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No, don't worry about it! As you progress through life, you will gradually gain more confidence and overcome your shyness. Right now, you may feel like you are unable to express yourself as freely as you want to, but it's okay! Take your time to let yourself grow as a person -- no need to rush things. It's okay if you feel like you're not able to come out of your bubble yet. You will find your voice eventually -- I'm rooting for you! Life is a journey, and you are the main character. As you walk through this path of life, you will develop into the person you want to be. I wish you the best!
blissfulCupcake
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Nov 10, 2015
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No it just takes time to build on your confidence you work at it in your own pace and then you'll see how your confidence begins to shine
Anonymous
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Nov 14, 2015
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There's a good chance you will always be quiet and shy. If you don't like that, only you can do something about it.
GentleHelix
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Nov 16, 2015
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First of all there is nothing wrong with being quiet and shy, if however it makes you uncomfortable at times you can always try to start treading out of your comfort zone one step at a time. A change in personality is hard and takes effort, but the fruits of your effort will last.
Bobcott
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Dec 22, 2015
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I think this depends on the actions and procedures you take. If you choose to do nothing about your quietness and shyness, I do not think there will be much improvement. If you, however, work on your weaknesses and take initiative, you will most definitely feel better regarding this matter. I used to be quiet and shy, but after going to a speech and debate camp (thanks mom) I felt a drastic improvement in my confidence and public speaking. This may not help everyone, but it certainly worked for me ;)
Anonymous
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Dec 29, 2015
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If you are naturally a quieter more shy person , you may always have a tendency to be that way . Depending on circumstances though , ones behaviour can change a lot over time . It would depend on whether or not you're happy with the way you are at the moment . If so that's awesome , if not and you would like to be more outgoing , that's also awesome . Although you may have a tendency to shyness , with time and by challenging yourself to small goals you can definitely become more outgoing
Anonymous
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Jan 3, 2016
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No. Not if you choose to not be. You can BE anything you WANT. You are your own person. If you want to change then simply change. I use to be that shy girl and when I grew out of it, because I couldn't take the way people were, people were actually proud of me.
IBelieveInYouHannahh
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Jan 5, 2016
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That question is up to you. You can remain quiet and shy if you don't try to overcome it. I'm currently struggling with social anxiety for seven years and I'm still working towards being more social. It might take some time but if you really want it. you have to go for it.
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