Why is it that I can't seem to get over someone who has hurt me?

To forgive and to accept that something hurtful or/and unfair has happend is often very difficult. It is all about finding enought confidence in yourself to realize that yeah, it was not supposed to happend, but that you're strong enought to overcome this without that much efforts, just as you climb a tiny hill. Trust yourself and you'll be able to trust others again. :)

It's very human not to be able to get over someone who you loved or cared about as a friend hurting you. Your trust in them and in some ways, your trust in people in general has been shaken. It's a hole in your soul that may take a while to heal...until you have evidence that others can be trusted.

If you have been close to someone, it is difficult to let go, because behind the hurt that they have caused, you will be wondering why that happened, because everything seemed to be really great beforehand and you miss that. It is ok to go through these emotions, to feel upset about what has happened, but remember there is a point when you will need to draw a line under it. It may seem difficult, but it will be for the best in the end. If you need any guidance on this, there is a brilliant self-help guide available on this website and you are free to use it should you want to.