Why do I get anxious when my boyfriend goes out?
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Moderated by Smita Joshi, BA Psychology / MA / Advanced EFT Practitioner
Updated: Nov 28, 2023
Anonymous
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Dec 26, 2015
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Well, this is a sign that you are worried about him and you are afraid of losing him but he is your boyfriend and you have to identify this by yourself
Anonymous
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Dec 26, 2015
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i get anxious when i am away from my boyfriend because i get scared he will find someone better because there is always someone better that me. the reason is because of our self esstem in our self
Recovery17
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Dec 26, 2015
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Its a trust thing if we are really honest with ourselves and feeling insecure and also the thing of feeling safe and proteced.
Anonymous
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Dec 27, 2015
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Maybe it is because you're afraid that he'll find another girl? It's totally normal, but you have to trust him. He already has a girlfriend/boyfriend, and he won't find another one x
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2015
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You're most likely not very trustworthy of your partner or are simply afraid with being hurt again from experience in past relationships which is perfectly OK!
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2015
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Premonitions maybe. I think you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel, and if he is doing something then now you know and you can go wherever from there and if he's not then there you go nothing to worry about.
saltywhale
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Dec 31, 2015
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yes, tell me why. if you're afraid he's gonna have someone else, you have to believe in him. Love is trust.
Anonymous
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Dec 31, 2015
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It's a natural feeling. You know how attractive he is to you which causes you to fear that another person will too.
Anonymous
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Dec 31, 2015
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You probably worry that he will cheat on you. Unless he already has a history of it, I wouldn't worry about it. If you two truly love each other, and if it was meant to be, then you should be able to trust each other enough to not cheat. If either of you do end up cheating on the other, then it wasn't meant to be.
Don't stress it..
IBelieveInYouHannahh
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Jan 3, 2016
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You probably get anxious because you don't trust him or have faith in him. You need to learn to trust that he will do the right thing if someone tries to hit on him.
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