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Why do I feel that I am rejected or neglected by people?

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Anonymous on Jul 15, 2016
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many people feel this way. It may be because you feel like you don't fit in or you are different to everyone else. Just accept everything and talk to them again
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Anonymous on Jul 17, 2016
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Firstly, most of the time that is not 100% the case. I don't know if it's like that with you or not. Sometimes there are groups of people that reject or negletct specific person. I'm not trying to say that you are making things up or anything, i just want to help. There are periods in your life that you'll feel like you're rejected and/or neglected, it's about what you do when you do. You can choose what to do about that and how will you act. If there are people that reject you, maybe you should confront them, if you believe that you will be safe. of not, you can bring someone with you. If you're shy or don't feel like doing that, try to see why they reject you. Maybe it's just not the group of people that you are meant to be friends with. Maybe you're not the same, and don't do things that people in a certain group do together. You should find your own company and people you can be friends with. Someone you'll feel comfortable with. Maybe you just haven't met then yet. Maybe it's just that these people don't see your qualities and are not open to trying to understand you. There are a lot of people like that. But eventually you will find someone ou share interests with. Try to be patient, and a bit more open to meeting new people (or you already are). It can be just that people are very close minded, and rude. So please stay the way that you are and don't change yourself for other people. You will find people that won't reject you, and people who you won't ever neglect. Maybe you're searching at the wrong place. I don't want to be boring, but you can find help here, and talk to anyone even more, and try to solve your problems, and get to solution. Good luck :)
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ItsAlyssa on Jul 28, 2016
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Just be yourself around people and stay true to yourself and talk to people and if your shy start by making small conversations by saying "Hi"
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Anonymous on Sep 4, 2016
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Some of the things I say come across as mean and angry but I just want to be needed and appreciated
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Anonymous on Sep 7, 2016
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I would find someone I'm comfortable with and slowly start to introduce myself to more people. Of course this may not be a comfortable way for you to get involved with people and that's okay because i'm sure you'll find some way to engage with others. You may have social anxiety though and you may want to discuss that with someone so that you can receive the help you need. I hope all goes well for you.
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Anonymous on Sep 9, 2016
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Sometimes the people around us are not fully aware of our needs or of what we are experiencing which makes communication difficult. In social places, confidence is what makes you stand out, as well as standing up for yourself when people are in the wrong, but only safely.
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Anonymous on Sep 16, 2016
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A lot of times, it's in your head. Just close your eyes and think about all the people who try to contact you without a reply. They love and care about you.
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Anonymous on Sep 24, 2016
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One main trend I've always noticed with myself is that I will look back and remember almost all of my embarrassing or cringey moments. Yet when I try to look back and remember the embarrassing/cringey moments of others, I can only recall 3 or 4 at most. You'll notice your own negatives or bad moments much more than others. This holds true to others as well. You may find that there are parts of you that you absolutely abhor, but to others, it might be but a small issue or not an issue at all. So people are probably not rejecting/neglecting you as much as you are just too caught up with your own flaws. Accept your flaws and work patiently to fix what you want to fix.
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healwithlove on Sep 29, 2016
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Maybe you are approaching the wrong people? Or maybe you do not feel ready to accept the people in your life? like you feel you do not deserve their friendship? or maybe you are just trying too hard to be liked for what you are not.
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Strivingforzen on Oct 5, 2016
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It sounds like you are experiencing some social anxiety. This is normal to an extent, we all feel as if we are being judged at one point or another. If it becomes overwhelming you could seek assistance from a qualified therapist.
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