Why do I feel that I am rejected or neglected by people?

You may feel as if you are rejected and or neglected by people if you have a frequency to push people away when they attempt to get close. By this I mean if you have been reached out to and you have pushed them away for what ever the reason, they may not think you need to be reached out too again. Hopefully this answered the question, even just a little bit. Take care

Sometimes it’s hard to not. It’s how you look at yourself. If you see yourself as a reject that’s how you’re going to feel about ther people.

Sometimes people around us have a hard time seeing the good in our hearts and our real reason for being their. Useually if we are ourselves in a bad mood and can't stop from hurting those around us. Those people would feel like they're under attack so to speak. This causes them to think poorly of us. If people think poorly of us based on initial contact it can be hard to show them you mean well. Anxiety, and depression can really affect us. It can make us paranoid that we think something is happening based just on Gut feelings. To all people who feel this way i wish i could say this. You are loved by many people. Everyone has struggles we go through and their will always be someone out their who knows what your going through.

That may be a sign of Anxiety or Depression, try and ask psychologist about it or a someone that can help you.

it does not mean you are failed that you fail to meet people's expectations, just trust yourself and be as yourself

i go through the same thing. And what my wife told be changed my view, she said on some level we all judge people for the better or worse, its wrong but it cant be helped. it comes down to what you give them to judge. To me it sounded like i had to change in order to be accepted which wasn't going to happen but it made me see that i'm not the problem the people who judge are the problem. And that's what lead me to the idea of a random act of kindess, show a little kindess and if they seem to turn their nose up at you then its one less person you need to concern yourself with

Because the fact is I'm always the second choice for everyone, if not the last choice. And I feel like my insecurities don't occur bc of nothing

It is easy to feel rejected or neglected by people, especially if you don't have a constant daily support system around you or, most commonly, the people around you are not particularly vocal about how they feel about you. When feeling things like "no one cares about me", it's important to remember all the kind things your friends, family or even strangers have done for or to you. People often fail to say what they mean, especially what other people mean to them. That's why it's important to look at actions rather than the words that come out of their mouth. Like today when that friend offered you some of their food, or when your mother insists on giving you a hug every day, or that stranger you see on the bus who always gives you a smile. Remember those things, for actions speak louder than words.

Maybe because you might have a negative thought pattern I have a negative thought pattern and it sucks but if you go and get help or speak to someone you can change that thought pattern and not feel neglected or rejected I've feel that on the daily and it feels so bad I've tried therapy but it doesn't work my thoughts are too bad to be fixed. And the thoughts of being lonely have gotten so bad that I started harming myself nearly everyday I didn't have anyone to talk to so I isolated myself from everyone all day

I feel that I am rejected or neglected by people first and foremost based on my sad feelings about myself. Whether I can accept that I am the reason is not always believable to myself..but is so true. Honesty with oneself. Denial. Feeling Rejected can come from jealousy, isolation, fear, anxiety, depression. Neglect can be confused with rejection when you feel depressed, sad, no self love, jealousy, feelings of self loathing, worried thoughts, being isolated and/or lonely. Other people’s insecurities reflected on to you make us feel rejected and neglected. Sometimes they don’t realize how they hurt us..because of they’re own sadness, depression and fears.