Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?

Things have changed. We've had problems. She's distant and started a new job. She goes to work dressed up, but never did it until recently. The extra time she has in the day, seems to go unanswered for. She blames me for being dishonest or talking to other people. I just don't know, I'm scared to ask questions, because she goes crazy with attitude when I ask where she's been or about the Missing time.

A probable cause can be that you've faced terrible dejection in the past which has ingrained this fear within you. But you need to believe that it won't happen again. Faith.

"If" she has done something in the past to gain that distrust, it can be a very hard thing to heal from. "If" she has not done anything, than perhaps you are feeling anxious due to insecurities or worries in your relationship. It may be helpful to talk about some of these worries with her, and it may also be beneficial to sit back and consider what may be causing these feelings to arise. Is it your perception of yourself? Is it her behaviors? Is it general anxiety? Identifying the problem is the first step in trying to grow and have a healthy relationship. Dont be afraid to talk a out you concerns and the things that make you uneasy in the relationship. Communication and self reflection are key.~

Maybe your trust has been broken before and now you're worried you'll get hurt again. Trust is hard to repair, give her the benefit of the doubt.

It could be because you have a low sense of self-esteem and think that anyone your girlfriend/boyfriend will find will be better than you, when this may not necessarily be the case.

I think this comes down to trust issues. Perhaps someone betrayed you in the past or find they don't meet your expectations? Sometimes we also have self-esteem issues and these issues bleed into relationships. If you have a low self esteem then you will expect that no one will be in a relationship with you for a long time. They will soon leave you. Self-esteem and lack of trust, I think those are the big two reasons people suspect cheating. It depends on the person of course, but everything stems from those things. Jealousy from Self Esteem etc. etc.

You could have trust issues, what I would suggest doing is confront her about how you feel and why you feel that way. If you feel like you might have trust issues I would tell her that and why you feel like you might have them. Communicating how you feel is very important in a relationship. If you don’t feel comfortable talking about how you feel I would just think about how to approach the conversation until you feel ready to tell her how you feel. I hope everything goes well and I wish you the best of luck! :3

My friend, I don't know you but you could possibly be suffering from some low self esteem that could be causing you to cloud your judgement of your girlfriend. If you do not have strong evidence of her cheating than you have to just over ride it and enjoy your relationship together. It is quite common to feel this way if someone have done you wrong in the past and you could be just suffering from past relationships that you have not fully healed from my friend. Don't be so quick to destroy a beautiful relationship on speculations of your girlfriend cheating without sound proof. I wish you nothing but the best moving forward my friend.

What is your significant other doing? What have they done to make you feel untrusting of them? What happened in your past is making you feel insecure about your current relationship? Very often, we go into a relationship and we may think we had it all. We think that this relationship is all we need. Only to discover we have been cheated one way or another. Then we enter into another relationship and get the same result. We may have gone through several relationships like this. Then we think it is us, we are not made to have a relationship. However, have we look deep enough into what happened in the original relationship to learn the lesson it was giving us? How can we blame others, when maybe we haven’t checked to see if we may have contributed to it as well? What is the lesson here?

Its probally you have such a nice girlfriend and fell afraid about lose her. You may think people want to take her from you. You have to understand that there is a good reason to her to stay with you. Once you give her all feelings she deserves, everything is gonna be ok. You guys also have to talk clearlly to each other about your relationship and your fears. This kind of thoughts can not help you at all. In fact, it destroys you instead. Remember : everyone is free to go and once she's decided to stay with you, you have strongly consider that.