Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?

Maybe the reason you feel your girlfriend is cheating is because of some insecurities you have, known or unknown. These insecurities could stem from past experiences or from some type of fear of unfaithfulness of someone you know or were close to. It is said that when we assume someone is doing something wrong, that maybe it is because we are guilty of that our selves. So if we could change the negative focus to a positive one and just believe the best, we will calm those voices that taunt us. If you really care about your girlfriend and you feel that she is someone you can love, then trust her to be loyal to you. Don't add unnecessary stress to the relationship. Laying your heart out there can be scary because it makes us vulnerable. We do not like that feeling because it makes us uneasy, uncertain, and can be very stressful and uncomfortable. Our body is like a blueprint it remembers past episodes real and unreal it does not know the difference. So dealing with our insecurities will change our thoughts.

I always think my girlfriend is cheating on me because, she never lets me go threw her messages, and she always tells me that she'll message me soon, she's always so blunt, and one time I caught her speaking to other boys, I ended up getting her password but then she changed it as soon as she knew I had her password, and she also has an excuse for everything and when she's in the wrong she try's and turns the tables and put me in the wrong.

Jealousy can be a complicated thing. It's important to know whether it's arising from your own insecurities or from your girlfriend's behavior. Above all, healthy expression of your concerns is a much better avenue to take than accusations and hostility.

You might always think your girlfriend is cheating if she is in fact cheating. In that case, I would suggest enlisting a friend to help you investigate. You might also think she is cheating if you have been hurt in the past and do not trust her to not cheat. In that case, I would suggest working on trusting her more.

It's because you do not trust her or yourself or your relationship with her. Love, honesty and trust always go together to make a successful relationship.

It just means you are not confident in yourself :( When you are confident that your girlfriend is attracted to you, you wouldn't think like that.

You probably have trust issues. Been through a lot in the past. Maybe you feel guilty.. Maybe she is. You never know. But just because someone hurt you before doesn't mean that they are going to turn out to be that same person.

Sometimes in our life we have a bad experience and we can not let it go. We are not interntionally doing that but our mind unintentionally tries to save us from the pain and hurt we have gone through. SO instinctively you are on lookout for red flags and danger signs anything which smells of dishonesty. Especially after our bad experience the factors that we realized we were too "in love" to notice these factors are the ones which we will be extra cautious of. SO you may think that and you will for sometime but you need to investigate before you blame. Its okay to be cautious but in order to preserve yourself you can not harm some one else :) Remember that Good Luck! It will be fine give yourself time. Talk to some one who can help if you can not overcome these issues. Its nothing to be shy of!

There are multiple ways that could cause you to think that a girlfriend is cheating, but the best option in this situation would be to talk to the girlfriend and address the topic in a kind manner. If you're afraid of there being another person in the relationship, the best thing to do would be to go to the root.

Because you really care for her and are afraid to loose something so perfect, she's so good to be true.