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Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?

Profile: Tomper
Tomper on Apr 15, 2018
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Mostly this is a sign of great attachement and that you really care! It is however also a sign that you have some unresolved trust issues with her. I'd advice you to talk to her about how you feel and carefully bring over your concerns.
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Profile: ShannonLstories1
ShannonLstories1 on Apr 21, 2018
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There could be many reasons if you have been in a relationship before where a they have chest you may just be worried it might happen again. However they may be acting differently or showing signs of them cheating or not showing enough interest in the relationship.
Profile: AprylFools
AprylFools on Apr 26, 2018
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There are several reasons for this. One could be that you've possibly cheated on her in the past and in turn, you're worried she'll do the same. The other could be that you've been cheated on in the past and have trust issues.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 26, 2018
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Past experiences can lead to paranoia in future relationships. It's about learning to trust and remembering that not everybody is the same.
Profile: sillyseraph002
sillyseraph002 on Apr 27, 2018
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hm...why do you think this? have you experienced a significant amount of betrayal in your own past? it does not have to have happened within a romantic context. it has been said that history is a good teacher, and as humans we often use the past a reference for predicting the future. you may have come to expect that people will abuse the trust you have placed in them. examine your own motives for thinking that this may be the case. talk to people you trust about the situation. it could just be anxiety on your part. the alternative of course, is that something in her behavior stuck out to you, and that maybe she is. if thats the case, it likely is more related to her own issues than anything else
Profile: Thexguy2332
Thexguy2332 on May 4, 2018
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Well, if she seems secretive. Like she protects her phone, you notice certain things that you find odd. You ask what’s she’s doing and doesn’t want to tell you. But wants to know all you do. She just might be hiding embarrassing girl stuff. Maybe pornography to be honest. Thinks she might feel embarrassed about. Don’t sweat it, ask and communicate.
Profile: SupportiveSockMonkey
SupportiveSockMonkey on May 20, 2018
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This could be due to previous negative experiences causing paranoia and insecurities. It is very common in first relationships and those where people have been betrayed. try talking to her about it and explain the situation to try and overcome this barrier.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 13, 2018
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Has she done anything to make you feel this way? If not then I would say that you just have trust issues. It is perfectly fine to have these thoughts, as long as you are not accusing her of doing something that she has never given you a reason to think. Talk to her about the fact you find it difficult to trust and she may surprise you with a way to help over come it. This problem if between you and your girlfriend.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 22, 2018
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This typically happens when people see themselves as inferior to their significant other; they think themselves not to be good enough to be loved, and following that idea, may consider that the other person may be certainly cheating on them. But, realistically, consider whether you have any evidence of any potential cheating - too often, it is all on our heads, and that alone!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 24, 2018
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That is a great question to explore. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. I wonder if it would help to identify some times you start to think she is cheating? Is it something that causes you to think that? It could be fear, a fear of losing her or an expectation to lose someone you love. It is best to explore those feelings, jot down in a journal when you feel that way and see if there is a realistic correlation to your feelings or not. You might see a pattern that emerges in your journal.
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