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Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?

Profile: TeddyBear11
TeddyBear11 on Jan 24, 2018
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If your girlfriend shows signs of cheating, then your thoughts are legitimate, otherwise, these feelings, thoughts, and images can be generated by feelings of low self-esteem, confidence, and insecurities.
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Profile: neverendingWillow31
neverendingWillow31 on Jan 24, 2018
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Either you have experienced it before and are carrying it over to a different relationship, or maybe you might be right. Find out before you make accusations
Profile: JJill1
JJill1 on Feb 8, 2018
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We all have a part of ourselves that doubts people, this can be from trauma or past experiences.. Most of the time, we are just overthinking :) There is that few times though, that your gut is right... Personally I like to break down the situation, sometimes you see where your thinking is flawed or right! :)
Profile: HanaHappyBanana
HanaHappyBanana on Feb 19, 2018
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Many reasons could explain this. Possible reasons include a lack of self-confidence, a lack of trust with or without a valid reason, or it could just be how you express your fear of losing your girlfriend. But only you have the answer.
Profile: Vendavale1
Vendavale1 on Feb 22, 2018
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Past experience often comes to our mind when we get caught in a similar situation. Talk to your partner about the situation.
Profile: Salty
Salty on Mar 1, 2018
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We all have our own insecurities. Trust is one of the hardest things to earn in a relationship. The longer you are with a person, and you get know the type of person they are, does trust come. If you have been in a relationship for a while and you still dont trust her, then it may be on good evidence.
Profile: Deetas3
Deetas3 on Mar 2, 2018
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Maybe trust has been an issue for you in the past. Or, you are feeling insecure and lacking self confidence. Maybe you are letting you mind tell stories and you need techniques to avoid that trap. maybe you have had bad experiences in the past. You need focus on positive thoughts, clear communication with your girlfriend and practice mindfulness when the thoughts get carried away.
Profile: 1jazz
1jazz on Apr 4, 2018
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Sometimes we think our girlfriend/boyfriend is cheating because we don't feel secure in the relationship.it can be caused by the lack of commnication and trust.Talking can really help cure any uncertainty you have.
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Maybe because you aren't happy with the relationship. Maybe you are cheating , or maybe you have a instinct and feel something that's truly happening. You need to talk it over with your girlfriend just be honest.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 5, 2018
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If there isn't really a past incident which you can link it to, it might be a reflection of your self-esteem, that you're worried you're not good enough? It might help to talk to her about it - if you told her that you were worried about whether she'd be loyal to you because you can get quite self-doubtful, obviously not straight off that you suspect that she's cheating on you! Hope that helps.
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