Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?
Anonymous
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Mar 27, 2017
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In my experience, when you're getting the feeling that something is off, something's definitely wrong. While it might not be cheating, that feeling could come from a lack of communication, jealousy, or another problem. When my boyfriend cheated on me, that feeling of wrongness was definitely there, but I thought that we just weren't connecting like we used to. In any relationship, communication is key.
BriteDay78
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Apr 9, 2017
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It sounds like you may have been cheated on before or are feeling insecure in the relationship because she already has a lot of social commitments. When do you feel safest with your girlfriend? Maybe it's time for an open dialogue about how you can be included in some of the stuff you would enjoy doing with her. And maybe find out what she needs from you. Wishing you the best in your relationship!
Anonymous
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May 14, 2017
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There are many reasons you could think your girlfriend is cheating. There are certain behaviors that usually indicate cheating, such as lying, leaving for long periods of time with no reason given, miscommunications, suddenly having an STD...(these are all examples from my last relationship). I would try to talk to your girlfriend about your concerns. Her response will be an indicator as well (pay attention to her body language, if possible). Best of luck to anyone who is worried about cheating!
Anonymous
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Jun 11, 2017
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If you're not able to trust your girlfriend whether she is or not cheating, it might be a questionable relationship. You should work things out to gain trust in each other, or if you're wanting to put any effort towards trust in each other. It's not meant to be.
intoxicatedwriter
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Jun 24, 2017
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Well there is many reasons as to why you could think that. But, some signs to someone who is possibly cheating is they are distant, they aren't around much, they don't really feel like spending time together, they take a long time to reply to messages or more. I would just trust your gut or even try talking about it with your girlfriend to why you feel this way.
GivingstonTreegull
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Aug 17, 2017
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Well this could be for a few reasons. First of all has she cheated before, or have you been cheated on be someone else? This can lead to paranoia in a relationship and make it hard to trust people. If not than perhaps you are feeling insecure about yourself and your role in the relationship? Maybe your partner is more out going than you are and that feels threatening? If you can't seem to shake this feeling yet you have no proof to back it up. Perhaps you should consider talking to your girlfriend about how you feel. Try not to be accusatory but instead aim the conversation in a mature direction that let's her know how you are feeling and that you would like to resolve the issue. Remember that just because some people cheat does not mean all people do. Best of luck!
Anonymous
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Aug 18, 2017
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perhaps working on trusting is something you need to do. think, why do i not trust her? what would make me trust her? and try going from there.
paytooooonnnnn
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Sep 13, 2017
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You may always think you girlfriend is cheating because your trust has been tested before. If this is the case, you can not bring past relationships (romantic and not romantic) into the current one. You need to fully trust her, It could also be because you may have some insecurities you need to work though within yourself. Perhaps talk to her about these. Hope I helped, have a great day!
jasminishere
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Nov 1, 2017
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Perhaps you feel like you cannot trust them, or even those around them. It's perfectly normal to feel paranoid of that, but sometimes there is a point when it can consume you, which in this case it would be. It's always best to try and talk with your partner about how you feel and see if there is a reason or trigger that is making you feel that way.
Anonymous
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Nov 9, 2017
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You need to ask yourself if you really have faith in her and if she has given you any reason not to trust her.
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