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Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 12, 2016
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Insecurity might possibly be a problem if you think you have no reason or proof over the matter. Because sometimes we feel like we're not good enough for someone or something, that we're less. But, it could always be something completely more practical. How does she act?
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Profile: heavenSpace38
heavenSpace38 on Dec 16, 2016
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insecurities.. you need to figure out if they are coming from within or are there reasons you don't trust her?
Profile: moonlessnights
moonlessnights on Jan 4, 2017
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When we really love and care about someone and want them in our lives, we're afraid that we're not enough and that they will look for better things. Ask yourself the question "Has she ever gave me any reason to suspect she's cheating"
Profile: shiningCloud47
shiningCloud47 on Jan 8, 2017
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It is hard to speak about your girlfriend. I would need to know more about your relationship. But I would like to speak about you. You can think of these thoughts regularity is it every time when you are not together or haven't seen each other for a while or it is all the time. Lot of times it is to do with insecurity of relationship it self and yourself, If this the case it would be could just think what you want to change to be able to trust more your girlfriend. Relationship can be without trust! If you are still having these thoughts you can some time speak that openly with your girlfriend, asking direct questions but in the right moment and calm voice. Honesty is always better than lies! You can always speak this issue here with listeners or therapist, there are here for you, have a great day! ;)
Profile: VenkatKarthikVK
VenkatKarthikVK on Jan 26, 2017
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Because you are not having enough trust in her.... We should always trust other people to have a healthy relationship. Trust is the first step in bonding.... Trust and be loved :D
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 5, 2017
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I guess you don't trust her enough. Maybe she's done something that hurt you in the past, or you have trust issues.
Profile: Danisaur55
Danisaur55 on Mar 15, 2017
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Most often jealousy is rooted in a form of insecurity. In these situations it's best to isolate and establish exactly what is the driving force behind your insecurity before going forward. Perhaps it would benefit you to discuss these thoughts with your partner, and try and understand what actions they are doing that fuel your own thoughts of inadequacy, leading you to suspect infidelity.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Mar 15, 2017
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If you are always thinking your girlfriend is cheating on you, then talk to her. Be vocal, don't just assume and get to the bottom of things. If you still can't trust her or what have you then end it because you don't want to be with someone you don't trust. Your happiness is important too.
Profile: Gat89
Gat89 on Mar 16, 2017
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A better question to ask yourself is what gives rise to the suspicion that your girlfriend is cheating? Are there instances which seemed out of place and that you would like to clarify with her? It is best to talk these things out in a safe space so that you both can be clear about how you feel in the relationship.
Profile: Leenient
Leenient on Mar 22, 2017
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It may be because of trust issues or paranoia of losing your girlfriend. Try talking to your girlfriend about how you feel in a way that's something you're having a problem with and in the way like expressing distrust towards her. She should be willing to help you go through this thought and listen to you without seeing it as a personal attack on her but rather a problem youneed to deal with.
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