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Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 14, 2016
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You more than likely have had experiences that resulted in trust issues. Either that or you are a skeptic by nature (like myself).
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Profile: Saifbeinghelper
Saifbeinghelper on Sep 23, 2016
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because these days cheating issues are so popular that we are unable to trust our loving partner or girlfriend. we usually hear some these kinds of issues and our thoughts begin to convert in a different way , you know what i mean. may be this is not the case but if you think you are unecessarily doubting her then this might be the exact case with you my friend.
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2cupsofteaa on Sep 24, 2016
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Multiple of reasons. Perhaps she is giving you reasons to believe that she is? Does she have many guy friends? Or even perhaps because you're feeling insecure? Either ways, you should always talk it out with her, and let her know how you feel.
Profile: gt17
gt17 on Sep 28, 2016
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If you think your girlfriend is cheating constantly, it may be an inner insecurity that has grown from something else, such as your parents or past relationships where someone may have been unfaithful.
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Anonymous on Sep 30, 2016
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You are not secure about your relationship. It could be many reasons: you don't think she loves you, you don't trust her friends, you don't trust yourself to be able to keep the relationship. You should talk to her about how you feel so you both can find the best solution
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Anonymous on Oct 9, 2016
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You are the only one who knows the answer to this. Why do you think this? Do you ahve trust issues in your relationship? Have you asked your girlfriend about your anxieties? What do you feel when you are thinking that she is cheating on you? What are minor feelings you have when you think about that? Why do you think you feel these things? In a private moment, remain calm, open-minded and honest and say to her, "I really need to talk to you. I want to be a good boyfriend, but I have a thought that you're cheating on me when you ___" or "...that you're cheating on me because I need ___" Try to remain calm regardless of the other person's reaction, but also be open-minded to misunderstandings that may be at play. Ultimately relationships are about trust, communication and love. You always need to do what is best for your own personal well-being and that may mean finding someone with whom you do not feel this anxious.
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Forwantofasong on Oct 12, 2016
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Insecurity can be a big part of it. So can doubt and trust issues, Previous experiences of being cheated on, Overthinking, jumping to conclusions, But really it all stems from some part of you believing that she could possibly cheat on you in the first place. Either you don't think you can keep her, or you think she's too good to want you, Or you don't trust her to stay, or believe too good to be true. Those can all be reasons on their own, or mix and match and combine. I personally believed all at once over one girl. But I'm not the best reference, because most of the times I got that feeling I was right about her cheating and that's not a normal thing that happens. So, Yeah.
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Anonymous on Oct 13, 2016
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You may think that she is, but that might not be the case. It may be just be your anxiety and paranoia.
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peacefulButterfly23 on Oct 13, 2016
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Do you feel that you trust your girlfriend? Maybe the problem lies within the relationship, you should start focusing on building a solid foundation and bond of trust.
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Anonymous on Oct 14, 2016
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maybe you don't have trust within the relationship so i suggest you and your partner to spend quality time and discuss feelings and what has made the trust decrease.
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