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Why do I always have uncontrollable doubts about any new relationship I go through?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 14, 2015
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Everyone gets doubts when they meet anyone new, especially someone who may or may not be with you in a romantic way. Everyone gets self-doubts, but the thing to remember is that they are with you for a reason. They saw something they liked and saw potential in the relationship.
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Profile: GrayDeer
GrayDeer on Mar 27, 2015
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A relationship is a huge risk: you are putting your most vulnerable self out to a person and you have to trust them to not hurt you. Realize that you have to trust the other person, and that you have the power to take things as slow as you feel comfortable with going. A relationship doesn't have to be 100% from day one!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 22, 2015
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You might have uncontrollable doubts about new relationships based off of past memories of bad relationships and the trauma that occurred. I was in a verbal violence case with my partner once. I'm still uneasy getting into new relationships!
Profile: friend4ever
friend4ever on Apr 2, 2015
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Doubts are always normal, it shows how much you value your relationship. Being open in the relationship and talking to your partner will always help in this case
Profile: coolvibes
coolvibes on Jul 24, 2018
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being in relationships can be anxiety provoking, because you are entering a world of unknowns and unpredictability, sense you have to accept that they have the free will to make their own choices and so, we have no control over that person. This can make trusting very difficult. perhaps, it is trusting ourselves, that we can accept and cope with these decisions and still remain valuable to people and to ourselves. looking inward to our own strength is the only path, when taking on any new journey,
Profile: ClearBlueSky95
ClearBlueSky95 on Jun 2, 2015
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Something may have happened in the past causing these trust issues, whether you can remember or not. What I'd say is maybe talking to your partner about how you're feeling, share your doubts, it could really help just by talking it out and getting reassurance. Best of luck. :)
Profile: helpfuldot
helpfuldot on Jun 22, 2015
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Some people just don't trust as easily as others. Some individuals may have gone through something traumatic or upsetting in their relationship and may find it hard to trust new people. It isn't a bad thing as long as you can realize what is happening
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 22, 2015
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It's actually quite common to have doubts, fear rejection, and worry about even small things. Sometimes simply talking to the other person can put your doubts at ease.
Profile: cristiana33
cristiana33 on Oct 19, 2015
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Having doubts it's natural. A lot more if your previous ones left you somewhat disappointed. Our doubts can help us approach anything new with caution. We have the power to decide whether or not to trust these thoughts or try to find proof to help us understand if we are only insecure or truly things aren't what they seem to be.
Profile: ArtisticLove03
ArtisticLove03 on Nov 24, 2015
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Trust issues, Anything you experienced in your past can hurt you. You need to let things go. When you do, I promise, you will feel so much better! :)
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