Why do I always have to have perfection. Why I am I afraid of what everyone thinks about me

It is human nature to care about what other people think of you. However, you should realise that the people that should matter to you will never judge you.

Sometimes I think that we feel the need to have perfection because we are comparing ourselves to others. If we stop doing that and start looking at what we are good at, what we have achieved in our lives, what we have learnt and how far we have come, we can begin to realise that we are good enough and we can give up the idea of perfection and trying to attain it as we are doing well. Nothing is really perfect and it is ok not to be perfect, we do our best and that is always good enough.

It is human nature to seek confirmation from people, especially our peers. you may not thing that you do but even the smallest choice could be decided in the pretense of trying to get people to like you. and if you feel that you are unloved you get worried that you are not good enough. People often try to be what they are taught is good, good looks, cool cloths, cool electronics. The sad truth is, it doesn't matter! you should love yourself for yourself, not for what others think of you. The only person you should want to love you is yourself.