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Why do I always fail even when I try my hardest?

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It happens and I can assure you that you are not alone. We oftentimes put much effort into our pursuits only to fail terribly. We persevere, but our efforts do not seem to pay off. But just because you fail does not mean that you have to give up on your endeavor altogether. I like to think that, in order to experience any success, we must also learn to deal with real failure. The failure is not what matters; what matters is how you react to it. Instead of dwelling on your downfalls and losing faith in yourself, it is very important that you learn from your situation and keep moving forward. Only then will you experience true growth. You will be fine!
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Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017
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Sometimes life does this. It's understandable that you feel this way. I can assure you that each and every time you fail is a chance to improve and change and learn from your experience :)
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Failure and success cannot be universally measured. Aka not everyones failure and success is the same. You need to figure out what success means for you. Given who you are and what you are capable of. Me personally, I have learned that success for me in say, passing exams, is when I pass 3 out of 5. I recognize that I have significant test anxiety, and that my ADHD working memory issues don't help matters. That doesn't mean that I won't try to work on my issues but it does mean that if I don't do as well as expected, thats still ok.
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avanef on Mar 15, 2017
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There's nothing wrong with the failure. That whole, "Failure isn't an option." No, it should be "Failure is an option, but one I won't choose." Failure isn't bad, it helps you get better and push yourself. Famous people and possibly even your inspiration has failed along the road in their life, and there's nothing wrong from it. Don't look at failure as a sign to stop, it's just a trial that is almost there but needs more work. Don't give up, just keep pushing and trying your best, because THAT is more important.
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magneticForest25 on Mar 17, 2017
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You can only do your best and every failure is part of learning... You gain experience from getting things wrong and you learn great life lessons... You will succeed when it is the correct time for you x
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peacefulkat on Apr 9, 2017
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You will sometimes fail even when you try your hardest in life, that doesn't mean that you're a failure or to give up, it just means to try harder until you succeed.
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Anonymous on Apr 15, 2017
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Sometimes, failure is just a part of life. Despite our best efforts, we can still fail at whatever we do. The brightest of minds can fail just as easily as anyone else. Put your mind to it, and don't give up. And even if you fail, don't let that stop you from trying.
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KawaiiG on Apr 28, 2017
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It is not a failure when you try your hardest. Try to find ways that will help you get the result that you want, but please keep in mind that we, as humans, make mistakes in order to learn and live. There is nothing wrong with making mistakes!
Profile: divinewillpower86
divinewillpower86 on May 7, 2017
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This should be connceted with life's Basic Principles. Always work hard. The result is not in our hands. Just like say sone person or child makes Federar as his moral or ideal n tries to improve his skills. May be he even doesn't make to go to state level. But he has improved amazingly. & as a human being he has been learning life's best lesson Never back down always work hard n Be happy through your efforts.
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Anonymous on May 17, 2017
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You don't fail. You are just looking at each situation from a different perspective- a negative one. Start taking what you see as failing and try to turn it around to something constructive, something to learn from. If it is other people making you feel as if you failed, remove yourself from those people. You are amazing.
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