Why do I always fail even when I try my hardest?

I am really sorry to hear that this is what you are going through. It is important to remember that you are not the sum of your achievements, but it is the effort you attempt things with that matters. If you are showing up and trying your best, even after your efforts haven't previously been recognised the way in which you want them to be, then that dedication and perseverance is, in itself, something that you should be immensely proud of. If it is schoolwork you are struggling with, communicate your concerns with a trusted teacher. I promise you that there always will be someone willing to listen, and who wants to help you. You are not a failure. Keep trying and you will see that for yourself

i was just thinking of this. i always do honestly. my hard work never pays off whether it's an exam or anything else. i put so much work and effort in things that other people barely pay attention to and they succeed in it way more than i do. which leaves me wondering, am i just stupid? i once studied for long hours for my physics exam and thought i was gonna ace it. it was a three hours long exam and i had a breakdown in the first hour and didn't know how to write anything. i died that day unsurprisingly and felt like the biggest loser in the world. till this day it still happens to me to put my best into something and failing. but if i can only succeed at failing let it be.. failing is not as scary as giving up. if you fail but try again and give it your best all over, knowing damn well it might not work out, than that is better than succeeding. cause you my friend just succeeded at being persistent, hard working, and strong headed. and that's a win. eventually you'll learn from your fails and they'll turn into wins. you cant fail the same thing twice. the more you fail the more you succeed in return. so don't give up ane keep failing!!!

Because the best things in life never come easy. If you want to master some form of art, you have to practice. The thing is, you may think you're failing even though you're trying your hardest, just because you're surrounded by other people trying the same thing, but just getting the hang of it a lot easier than you are. Remember, everyone learns differently, and so system is perfect because humans as per nature are vastly different and unique individuals. The US government wasn't created to be the perfect solution, but the best of what was offered. So think about that.

Most of us think that there's something wrong with failing, but in reality there's nothing wrong with that and there's nothing wrong with us either. We learn from our mistakes and that makes us stronger. Keep going even if you fail, don't let negative thoughts make you think that you are not doing enough because you have been doing your best. At the end of the day, what really counts it's how we get up and keep fighting for what we want. Keep doing a good work as you have been doing so far, but don't be so hard in yourself, it's okay to not be perfect. If possible take a moment and think back as for why maybe things have not work before, what you can learn from that, what you could do to avoid the same mistakes, that might help; and again, don't be so hard on yourself. Hope this helps... take care.

Failure is a part of life that no matter where you are and how hard you try, you will experience it at some point. Trying hard doesn't lead to success but it leads to making things better. The phrase of "Practice makes perfect" is false because practice doesn't make you perfect but it makes progress. You are working so hard to improve and become better but sometimes it just isn't enough and that's just the way life is. Its okay to fail though, learn from that failure. Maybe you though too hard about the issue when the solution was surface level or maybe that thing just wasn't meant to be.

The reasonable explanation behind this your putting forth so much effort that your missing your mark on what your actually trying to do you may be over doing something and neglecting smaller more keen deatails don’t worry though everyone has a tendency to incur this problem i my self included don’t get discouraged it’s in our nature to fall down sometimes you can’t always fail you have to be achieving something that your not even noticing you literally are right now doing something amazing not even realizing it I’m sure if you just got past of the failing thoughts

Sometimes Even if we try our hardest we may not succeed and that is okay. Failure is a part of our lives. If we don't fail we won't know the value of success. All that really matters at the end of the day is you gave your best. What really matters in life is that you are surrounded by the people you love and care about, you have people that you can count on when times get hard, for these people are hard to cone by. Be a good person who is kind and compassionate, who can empathise with other people, and trust that everything will be alright.

You arent failing, you are succeeding You tried and thats what matters you might now reach your goal but you reached another person's goal which is great. Everyone feels like they failed even when they are actually succeeding, remember you can't reach the sky without trying many times. Failure is a sign that you are learning new ways to do things even when all you want to do is succeed. failing isn't always bad it can be good too, you just have to look at a different person's perspective. I promise you didn't fail, you learned a new thing.

We never fail when we try our best. Your effort just isn't being recognised, but you shouldn't see it as a failure because we always grow a lot by making our hardest. Maybe the way you are trying hard isn't valuing you effort. For example: if you need to study for a test and you try to just study all the time and every day, you are probably going to burn yourself out. It's important to be healthy in all aspects of life (social, phisical, mental, spiritual) so that your performance keeps good. So if something like that is happening, you can learn with your mistakes and make much better in your next try!

Sometimes it is the thinking that makes you feel that you are a failure. You may doing things that are not your strength. Everyone has their own strength and I believe is the timing is not right yet. Believe yourself you can do it one day, stop releasing your "giveup" spirit. The hardest that you tried, you will feel breathless and started sorrowing. Failure is a definition of giving up. When you decide to give up, meaning you are annoucing failure to yourself. If it is the right things to do so, go ahead and believe someone would support you, at least yourself is a person to support yourself