Why can't I talk easily in front of my class?
TheRisingPhoenix
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Apr 3, 2019
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It can be difficult to talk in front of your class because we fear being judged by our peer more than we do by strangers. We have all had those moments when we're like oh gosh what if I stumble on my words or forget what I am about to say. It helps if you have a friend in the class who can give you an encouraging smile. This can make us feel more comfortable in front of the class. Unfortunately that is not the magic answer. The only way to get better is to keep on try it.
Anonymous
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Apr 20, 2019
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You may feel that you will embarrass yourself in front of everyone, and that if you mess up you will lose respect. Everyone feels this way from time to time, and it's completely normal. I've felt this before a presentation, or even just trying to read in front of my peers. One tip is if you're presenting a project, rehearse, rehearse, rehearse! If you have a plan and are familiar with the presentation, you will feel a lot more confident. If its something like reading a passage, try reading it quickly beforehand, but make sure you keep up with all of the information beforehand.
Anonymous
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May 26, 2019
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You are definitely not alone in this situation. This may sound surprising, but many people, even the most outgoing people, can struggle with this issue. It isn't easy standing in front of a bunch of people who are the same age as you and then start talking to them, especially since the people watching you are your peers that you will be seeing everyday for up to a few years or so. Making mistakes can be embarrassing, especially in front of your peers. If you ever do have to talk in front of your class again, don't be afraid though because the more you practice talking in front of people, the easier it will become.
celeste21
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May 29, 2019
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I think it is something that happens to everyone, at least I do not know someone who does not get nervous when speaking in front of many people, and if they say that they do not get nervous, they are probably lying!! T​o avoid it I try to prepare with time (for example if I am going to give a class) and practice… Concentrating on breathing helps, too!! It also helps me a lot to think that I am talking to someone I know, to a friend. You have to be positive, you attract what you think, the mind is strong!!
Anonymous
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Jun 20, 2019
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Maybe it is because you are just too shy and might feel uncomfortable to talk in front of your classmate. I have my own experience in this matter, I was once a very shy person. But, there is always things you can do. You can overcome it by making your classmate as your close friends. As for me i would talk to everyone in the class. I told them jokes, have fun with them. By the time i realize it, it gets more comfortable to talk in front of them. Think of them as the persons. You wont be too shy with your close friends right? That is how i dealt with it.
Haybug9457
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Jun 25, 2019
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Seems like you have stage fright. Try talking infront of your mirror and then to family! If that does not work then maybe find an easier way? When I was younger instead of looking people in the eyes when speaking i would look at the top of their heads. That way they thought I was making eye contact. Find something that helps you and go with it. Being shy can be a downfall but once you find a way to work on stage fright you will feel amazing when you present and make yourself proud!! Good luck! If you need help feel free to message me!
Takislover
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Jun 28, 2019
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You are definitely not alone on this! I have trouble talking in front of my classmates every time I have a speech or presentation! This is completely normal. I think the main reason for being so nervous is probably the fear of making a fool out of yourself. The majority of teenagers are very self conscious, and they care very much about their appearance. You are probably afraid that you’ll mix up your words or forget what you were going to say. I think the only way to really solve this problem is time. After multiple speeches and after becoming closer with your classmates, it will be much easier for you to talk without all the butterflies :)
HanDaMan
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Jul 5, 2019
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For me it was the fear of being wrong. I would not have been able to stand the embarrassment. But I realized later that we have to let go of our fears. It does not matter what others think of me and obviously even if you make a mistake no one will remember it after a minute. We are not trying please anyone else. And nobody cares about us making a mistake in class in the long run. At the most, it will be a funny memory to laugh about some time later. We must remember that we are free. See your classmates as your friends and just do what you got to do.
cheerfulArrow849
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Jul 10, 2019
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I used to feel this same way. This happens to a lot more people than you probably are thinking of. This is probably coming from anxiety. Anxiety is something i have had to work on for many many years of my life. It is very hard to deal with and i felt anxious a lot of my life. But it gets easier and it gets a lot better and more manageable once you start understanding yourself and helping yourself grow. I used to ask myself how i was doing or write about my day in a journal. How are you doing now?
ConallBranagin
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Jul 19, 2019
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There could be a lot of reasons that public speaking could be a challenge. There have been a lot of suggestions on how to make this easier, take a deep breathe, find a focal point in the room to look at either being a trusted friend, a spot on the wall that is just above the level of people's heads. Use it as a calming or to tune out the audience in general. Stage fright is common and you are certainly not alone in feeling this way. If you can bring notes to help you stay on point. Take a deep breath, know that people are interested in what you have to say, find a focal point, and take your time. Often with practice, this skill can be made easier for you, so good luck, keep practicing and getting through it.
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