Why can't I get over her or him?

The reason it is so difficult to let go of that special person is that we have drawn a picture of ourselves that was not complete without them. When they leave us, the picture of ourselves seems incomplete. So we need to redefine who we are in terms of what is in our life now and what we aspire to bring into our lives.

Because you loved him or her. You don't suddenly forget about them or the memories you share. It takes time, which makes it very difficult. They say that it'll start to fade eventually.

Because you are thinking about them too much. Try and take your mind off them and relax. Try to do things you love.

Address the situation head on. Regardless of how involved you were with the guy who doesn't care about you, you have to acknowledge your feelings and address the situation. Denying you cared about the person or were interested in him won’t help you move on.[1] Don’t pretend that it didn’t happen or act like you are unfazed by the situation. To effectively get over someone, according to psychologists, you need to recognize and admit what you are dealing with. Regardless of how serious your relationship with the guy was, this is an important step in the grieving process. Confide in a trusted friend or write your feelings down in a private place such as a diary or journal.

Because you probably arent fully allowing yourself and holding onto something. To fully move on you need to realise the reasons why and accept them. It can take time but everyone is capable

You can't because then your going to end up hurting that person and that is not what you want to do your going to have to find a different way through.

Sometimes it's hard, but with support, you can do it!

Heartbreak over a romantic loss is one of the hardest things to handle. Fortunately, people do recover from heartbreak and go on to thrive. In fact, these are experiences that lead to tremendous personal growth. One of the ways to help get over a romantic loss is to share your feelings here on 7cups and to process your emotions fully. At those difficult times, reach out to find a listener on 7cups, someone who can listen to whatever you are feeling at the time.

I depends, sometimes its just that one soul mate ,others is for money, sex, or drugs. (Which the last three are very unhealthy relationships)

You still love them the past did happen now you have to go put hang with your friends and family and enjoy the life you forgot you had without the ex