Why can't I get over her or him?

Relationships can be such a big part of our lives. When they end, it feels like our world is ending. It can become so difficult to cope with, but it's important to remember that this pain does not last forever.

I cant get over her because of how god damn gourgeous she is, and how much she loves me for me. she is perfect.

Maybe you have some things which you wanted to tell him/her but never did, maybe you have some regrets like "Maybe if i told him/her about this then it would've been different" or "maybe if i did that then i would've been able to move on". Maybe you guys parted ways without communicating correctly. Maybe you think that you can never find someone like your ex. Maybe you sold yourself out. Can be many different things. Sit with yourself and think about why did you parted ways in the first place, then try focusing on the reason and then just try accepting the truth. Don't worry my friend, happens to the best of us. You'll find someone else who'll treat you just better. Stay strong!

Because sometimes you put your happiness in their hands, and when their gone so does your happiness.

You don't need to. Just roll with it. IT will wear off eventually. Its as natural as aging, getting hungry or falling asleep. Being in that pit is hard for most of us. We need to get some time off the dating game and concentrate on our well being to love ourselves again. Afterwards, its our call if we want a new relationship or not.

Most of the time people cant get over because hey know that they still love them at the end of the day. I know it is crazy to say but most of the time people are scared to say what they really mean

Because the heart hurts, you've gotten attached. You will get over them but it takes time. It helps to find someone else.

You loved them a lot. It takes time to get over these things. They do happen, but it takes time to move on.

Situations which present themselves to you on a regular basis my remind you of them. Additionally if they're plastered over your social media sites then you're going to be drawn back in, hoping something may happen. It all depends on your situation but space and time is the best method i've found.

You're just hung up on them. It happens to a lot of people but eventually, you will get over them after some time. Don't stress it, you'll be okay :) x