Why am I so shy around big crowds, but when I'm with one friend than I'm fine?
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Updated: May 25, 2022
StrawberryM
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Aug 10, 2015
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It sounds like you are experiencing Social Anxiety, you should look this up to be more aware of it, and try talking to someone about it, such as a therapist or family member/friend.
StayStrong152
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Aug 25, 2015
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A crowd is full of strangers and can often times feel suffocating. You should be fine with your friends, that is a good sign because it shows that you are comfortable with them.
Anonymous
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Nov 23, 2015
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It is completely normal. I have the same problem. With a small crowd or even one person I feel very comfortable because it is one on one, but with a big crowd I get very scared.
Blaine62
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Jan 26, 2016
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That is very common. Crowds can be noisy and unpredictable. We can be afraid of being judged by people that we don't know.
Bingster123
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Jun 28, 2016
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You may be scared that someone is going to judge you. Though that shouldn't matter, Just be yourself
Rajnin
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Jul 11, 2016
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because in large crowds they are strangers and anxiety gets the best of you. Around a friend you took the time to get past the anxiety and open up.
Anonymous
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Aug 9, 2016
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This feeling you are experiencing is called social anxiety, this does not mean there is something wrong with you! I hope this gets better for you!
Anonymous
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Aug 15, 2016
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This happens because you are comfortable with your friend and know he/she most likely wouldn't do anything to harm you. So you put your guard down.
Anonymous
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Sep 14, 2016
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If you're around big crowds, you may feel that you have to surpass everyone present, in a way. You want to impress everyone, or at least not be put down by anyone, and this can be anxiety-inducing for some. For me, it means that I need to realize where I am and take a breather. If you're with one friend, you could be alright because the burden is not so heavy when it's just one pair of eyes on you, especially if you trust this person.
Anonymous
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Sep 14, 2016
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When you are with a friend you don't have any fear about judgement what it's not true when you are with strangers, making yourself more confident it's important to be more open to strange people,
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