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Profile: calmPeace85
calmPeace85 on May 8, 2017
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Let me guess, you're nervous around your girlfriend because you're worried about what she's thinking about you. Be confidant, girls love confidence in a guy. Most of all, be yourself.
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Profile: kayleebabeee
kayleebabeee on Mar 28, 2018
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nervousness may occur if you aren’t sure how you really feel. is it a new relationship? are they your first girlfriend? if so, you may just need to adjust to this new thing in your life and use it to guide you into a better wellbeing.
Profile: Hurricane67
Hurricane67 on Jun 3, 2018
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It shows that you really care about her and when you care about someone there will be a correlation between love and fear. That fear being the fear of losing her or pushing her away. It helps to imagine that everything is perfect in your relationship and that she lives you for who you are (which she probably does). After that, you can be yourself.
Profile: weepingwill0wtree
weepingwill0wtree on Apr 2, 2016
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It really depends! If it's a new relationship, it's probably because you're still getting to know each other. This can be a nerve-wracking time, and I want you to know that it's normal and okay to be nervous. When a relationship is still fresh, you might be more conscious of your words and actions, wondering how the other person will react to them. This then makes you nervous. When you like someone a lot, you want to impress them, and you want them to like you back. Therefore you might be more nervous around someone you like compared to your friends. Once you become comfortable in the relationship, the nervousness should fade. If you've been in a relationship with your girlfriend and you're still feeling nervous, there might be something else going on. Try to make a list of possible reasons you're nervous around your girlfriend. This might help you figure out why you're feeling this way!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 27, 2016
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You could be feeling like you're going to mess something up with her. Just be yourself and if she doesn't love you for who you are, you know she isn't the right one. Best of luck!
Profile: peacefulMoon6803
peacefulMoon6803 on Feb 9, 2020
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Being nervous is natural. Relationships are an exploration in which you bother discover each other. Lean into the experience. After all, she chose you. How do you feel knowing that? Be yourself, be happy and be honest. Let go of expectation about her and yourself. Take deep breaths, calm your mind and just enjoy each moment. You can do this. She sees something in you. That says volumes. Be confident in her decision and yours. Ask yourself why you are nevrvous. Write it down, and work through each reason to determine if they are real. Most of all, have fun.
Profile: peacefulIris56
peacefulIris56 on May 1, 2016
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You're nervous around your girlfriend because you think that she may judge you. So, you are nervous because the focus is on you and your personal flaws.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 13, 2019
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Perhaps your nerves arise from the expectations you have of your relationship or from your inexperience in a relationship. In that case, I would have to know more about your situation. However, I think that the nerves might still ultimately come from how you think she'd perceive your relationship or you as a person. These thoughts and feelings could be triggered by how your girlfriend reacts to certain things. It could also be from overanalyzing situations or things that she says. Personally, I find myself being oversensitive to what my boyfriend says because of irrational fears that he will leave me.
Profile: positivevibesonly108
positivevibesonly108 on Nov 22, 2019
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It depends, maybe that's a good thing maybe you have so much feelings for her that you get nervous around her, and she just makes you that happy and you just get butterflies, as time goes by you will get more comfortable with her and you won't be as nervous so you don't need to worry. It's just the honeymoon stage at the moment just take things slow don't over think maybe talk to her about your feelings more tell her that you get nervous around her she will understand trust me. You won't have that feeling forever it's just temporary. :)
Profile: Yourfairygodbro
Yourfairygodbro on Mar 27, 2016
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Are you nervous around anyone else? Is there anything you're hiding from your girlfriend? Is there something specific your girlfriend does that makes you nervous? In an ideal relationship, all partners should feel mutual comfort and there should be clear communication. If your girlfriend is already familiar to you or you get to know her better and she knows the real you then likely you won't be as nervous anymore.
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