Why am I so nervous around my girlfriend?

Well, there are many reasons. Maybe you're overwhelmed by the fact that you're in an actual relationship. Maybe you're too concerned about impressing her. Maybe you're nervous because you want this to work out. Maybe you're not sure you're being a good partner. Maybe there's a ton of things you'd like to share with her but just don't know how to do it. Maybe your last relationship didn't end up well and you don't want this to end up the same way. Maybe you're scared of the possibility of this being something serious. Maybe you should tell her that you get nervous! It can take so much pressure off of you to be truly open to her.

This has happened to me once before. Without knowing your situation at all, I have two possibilities for you: You two have not both shown your vulnerable, embarrassing sides to each other. When two people are in a relationship, they generally let each other know about everything. That’s the great thing about being in a relationship! Two people can entrust each other with their most private thoughts and emotions without any judgment onto the other. You feel anxious likely because you and her have not done this yet. And if you both have done this, it’s likely there is still something you are hiding from her, or she is hiding from you. Also, you both may have not expressed your equal love for each other. 2. You two are just not compatible. I had a girlfriend once where we both “bared our souls” to each other. We both expressed our deepest vulnerabilities. But still I felt kinda anxious around her. I still didn’t feel 100% myself. And I chalk it up to the fact that we just aren’t super compatible. We didn’t mesh perfectly. It didn’t really have to do with specific interests, but more a general chemistry with each other. I think we enjoyed the idea of liking each other—but in reality we just didn’t really care for each other as much as we thought we did. I would talk to her about it. Tell her that for some reason you just still feel nervous around her and that you’d like to try figuring out why. Good luck

Maybe because you are insecure about hurting her through your behaviour or actions. The point is that some time we love someone so much that we can not stand watching them hurt. And we dont want to be the reason for doing that. So we over think about each of our action and words and how they might affect them. Maybe you are afraid that you might lose her doing so. Maybe because you are trying too hard to impress her with things that you feel are not good in you or the things that you feel she likes.

There are many reasons to be nervous around a significant other. I am not exactly in your position or you but what I do know is that it could be because you don't want to embarrass yourself or upset her. I can relate to being anxious or nervous around my girlfriend because I am sometimes just really worried that I am not showing enough affection, caring and being kind enough. I would take a good look at your situation and try and find the root of the problem, and then go from there. I hope that this helps you out!

I was extremely nervous when I started dating my boyfriend. I did not know what to do, if he would think I was weird or start to not like me anymore. I started to realize that I was getting anxious around him. I was worried that I wasn’t good enough for him or that I would embarrass myself in front of him. I decided to talk to him about it. I broke down and told him all my fears and the reason why I get so awkward with him. He lovingly reassured me that the scenarios in my head were all fake and that he truly cared about me. I felt so relieved telling him how I felt. After that conversation I wasn’t as nervous around him anymore.

You probably like her a lot and always want to be your best self with her. This is good. But try not to put too much pressure on yourself. She's probably just as nervous as you are. So make sure that the both of you are communicating effectively and truly getting to know each other very well. Both your likes and dislikes, your values, how to approach certain situations. I think that once you are able to get past the basic stages, you won't be too nervous her anyone (and she won't be too). Take it easy. Discover your love. :D

Being nervous around a girlfriend is perhaps a sign of worry or feeling that this relationship might sour. This is a friend and a person with whom there may be a potential romantic interaction. Of course, we all know our shortcomings. But that is not usually important unless it is made the focus of the relationship. The relationship exists to build on the strengths that each person brings to the table. This is the purpose of the bonding. Where this relationship brings real happiness and confidence about the future, both parties may decide to marry. People want to know about the personality they are befriending. They want to see the motivations and the potential of the other party. Worrying too much about the problems does not solve this issue. But there is always the cautious need to know the other to determine what will be the outcome in the future of the relationship.

We are sometimes nerbous around the people we care about so much as we are worred that we might lose them. It's our brain telling us that we don't want to lose someone so important to us. Our brain is just trying to protect us, but that's a superfical answer. We are nervous as we use to the stigma of always being judged, but it takes time for us to feel that we aren't judged by our partner anymore. With time the nervous may go away as your true self with them. Things may get better with time, as they usually do at times.

If you are in a new relationship with your girlfriend, then it is normal to feel nervous. This may be due to the fact that you do not know her very well yet or may be because you just need time to grow comfortable around each other. That is normal. You are just embarrassed, many people feel that way. Once you get more comfortable dating her, and more comfortable with other people knowing you're dating her, you will feel much better Are you desperate to keep her happy? In a relationship you want to keep each other happy and sometimes this pressure becomes a bit scary and overwhelming, maybe it's even some insecurity about not feeling your equal to her. Let me tell you, whatever you did to end up in this relationship you deserve to be in it and it's okay to relax a little. I'm positive she loves you back!

sometimes new relationships can create new insecurities and challenges that we were previously unaware of. So to combat this the individual must open themselves to being open, in this sense, you must engage in being within an open relationship and be open to new experiences that may be new or fresh to oneself. You must engage the person with love and compassion and accept them for who they are. accept new roles and responsibilities and inspire each other. Education must be an option and allow for nurtursance and development of an unknown education. Fresh and new ideas must be a must