Why am I so nervous around my girlfriend?

If you are so nervous it means that you probably have something inside that you need to clarify. You could surely start to self-analyze yourself, understand if you feel nervous around her always or in some specific situation. Do you feel nervous because you are uncomfortable, embarrassed or for another reason? it is important to be able to understand when, how and what triggers your feeling of nervousness when you are with her. This is the first step to better understand the situation, ask yourself questions. Furthermore, communication has a great role in relationships. So, at the right time and in the right way, it would be good to express your doubts and feelings to your girlfriend. She could understand your fears and help you, step by step, to resolve the situation.

You like her and you want her to like you back! I'm sure you're subconsciously afraid that you'll slip up and she'll change her mind about you. But since she's already committed to being your girlfriend, I find that pretty unlikely. :) For some people, it can be really difficult not to be nervous around their significant others. It could take some time for you to get more comfortable around her. And it's okay to be nervous. Though it's never fun, no one should judge you for this regular human reaction, and it doesn't make you any less fun or interesting to be around.

You're probably thinking about what she is thinking about you. Like if she's judging you or something. And also you might also think that you might or might not say something stupid. Some feeling insecure about yourself can lead to being nervous around your girlfriend. So I would like to say try relaxing when you are with her, might be kinda difficult but not impossible. I would also like to say that if she is really carefree and seems like talking to you, you shouldn't care about being judged by her and she isn't thinking about being judged by you. Hope this help.

Sound like you have challenging time to be around your girlfriend Nervousness feeling cause too much pressure on behavior and emotions how do you feel about it ? It seems you care about her relationship can be hard to deal with sometimes in the beginning and people usually get over it What are the times when you don’t have this feeling ? What are the things make you worried or nervous ? What do you think could help you ease your feeling ? What do you do most of the times when you together ? Have you tried our wellness test and growth exercise

Many people are nervous because they have underlying feelings about there girlfriends and they are holding back there true self, Also many people are nervous because they are nervous about something else but the subconscious does not want to let it out. One thing to do is think about every important event in your life and you should be able to narrow it down to a couple of things that can make you nervous. A important step is being your self because it will be better in the long run, this is true because if you tell lies and forget then you will have bigger problems.

Hi; thanks for speaking out, I'm Frost-Wire and welcome to Seven Cups. First; i want to start by asking: How long has the thought been lingering within you? If it's been present since you both have started dating, an you have not shared this thought; what's the best answer to the three more heart felt questions? "Is this love?, Does or will my inner axiety or nervousness be seen?, what can I do to confront my inner dwelling problem?". I understand that relashionships can be time consuming and with them comes alot of needed support. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask either me or the team for help; thanks for being part of the movement, and we hope you do well.

Being nervous around your girlfriend is normal. Usually when you like someone, you get nervous. You're probably worried about what she'll think of you. You probably want her to think about you in a good way. You don't want to mess it up. In a relationship, you might even fear that you and your girlfriend will break up. You might feel nervous even during a phone conversation because you don't want to say the wrong thing. You might never stop being nervous around your girlfriend, but eventually you will feel more comfortable around her. I wish you the best of luck.

Hey there, that could be a few different things I guess... It could be you are scared of messing it up with her so that makes you nervous. It could be that she is amazingly beautiful and that's making you nervous... it could be you are scared of her shouting at you or being annoyed with you (only put this in because that's how I used to feel with my ex). But I guess you will have to have a deep look within to find the answer, I think you know the answer already but may find it hard to piece it together? Perhaps talking to someone on 7cups may be helpful for that :) Hope this helps!

For me when I started a new relationship with my girlfriend who happens to live "literally" half-way around the world, I always felt nervous. On hindsight I found that being open and honest at all times was the best way to get over that nervous feeling. I think that the nervousness you experience is that you don't want to do something wrong in her eyes. So, if you want your relationship to grow past this nervousness, just be open and honest. Never hold back describing what you mean and how exactly you feel. Most people I believe will respect you more when you are open and honest. This helps develop the relationship and grow more meaningful.

Butterflies in the stomach are part of the fun of entering into a relationship! This is totally normal. After all, the acceptance from another person when it isn’t sure they will like you is a huge confidence and mood booster. The important question to ask is - how can you keep the nervous feeling in the healthy range? The positive parts of being in a relationship can be the adrenaline rush of acceptance and validation, and extra excuse to be our best selves, and really using the time to reflect on our actions - and with a new set of eyes review what we do and who we are to look for growth opportunities. Ie on second thought, maybe I won’t leave milk on the counter to spoil... It becomes unhealthy if it is too much stress or you stop feeling comfortable being you best self. Keep an eye out on how you are feeling, and you can fully enjoy the infatuation period Of a new relationship.