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Why am I so nervous around my boyfriend?

Profile: ingeniousPeace79
ingeniousPeace79 on Feb 25, 2017
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difference in vibration. which is given by different states of mind keyword is difference the more the number of mini differences between you two, the more stress/nervousness it's natural and it should be a barometer for all of us because we can lie to ourselves and others but this barometer never lies also, get used to close your eyes and try to appreciate the distance between you and you boyfriend. if you two are on the same page, the distance should vary around few meters to tens of meters but if you appreciate that distance is big (like km), then too many differences (and lies count as differences, lies could also be there) make it a habit to appreciate distance not only with your boyfriend you can feel a distance of km with someone who is physically near you and you can feel 0 meters between you and someone who is phyiscally on the side of the globe. timespace is weird
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Anonymous on Mar 9, 2017
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There could be many reasons. However, being nervous around anyone probably means something else is going on in your head. It could be a number of reasons but usually it may mean feelings of worry or uncertainty. You should consider what you two do together or talk about. I'd suggest looking at trying something new and going from there. It never hurts to keep things interesting :)
Profile: LilyHope
LilyHope on Apr 19, 2017
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It sounds like there are past experiences that are influencing your current experience with your boyfriend. I know that in the past when I've felt nervous around my partner or even a man that I fancy it is due to feelings of concern around rejection, them becoming angry with me or even something like them feeling unhappy. I hope that helps!
Profile: Bainne
Bainne on May 6, 2017
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It's natural to feel nervous around someone that you care about. I'm going through it myself; just being around someone that means so much to you is nerve-racking. It's so easy to critique yourself and try to make yourself look perfect in their eyes, or to fear that you may lose their respect. The most important thing to remember, however - is that they're your boyfriend for a reason. They adore you just as much as you adore them, and every moment you spend together only deepens your bond. Open up to your boyfriend. Let him know how you're feeling, and discuss it with him. You'll find that your worries and nervousness is only temporary. :)
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Anonymous on Aug 10, 2017
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Are you afraid that you'll do something wrong and he'll break up with you? That's a common concern, especially with new relationships. If you find yourself feeling nervous when you're with him, just try to breathe and relax. Maybe even have a conversation with him about it and try to figure out why you're nervous in the first place!
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Anonymous on Aug 19, 2017
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Why are you so nervous is a question you should ask yourself. Maybe you should of never made it official if you was not fully comfortable. Or maybe it's butterflies and it's normal
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Danielle999 on Oct 8, 2017
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You may feel as if you are not good enough for him, or have a fear that he will dislike you if you act normal. It also could be because you're falling in love, or because you like him so much that you become unable to focus, shaky, etc. You have to decide how you feel in order to determine what is happening to you.
Profile: Originalsky777
Originalsky777 on Nov 5, 2017
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You may be nervous around your boyfriend because your just beginning your relationship and you want to make a good impression on the other hand you may be nervous around him because he has mistreated you in some way
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Myra22 on Nov 15, 2017
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Because either he makes you feel like you have never felt before or you are insecure about yourself around him.
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Anonymous on Nov 16, 2017
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Maybe you are scared he will hurt you or leave you, be annoyed at something you say or do, or maybe you are scared of doing the opposite to him...
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