Why am I so nervous around my boyfriend?

There are different kinds of nervousness. As of this point in time, the listed answers assume a nervousness based in fear/anxiety. An implied negative feeling. While further context would be needed, it is entirely plausible that this feeling of nervousness/anxiety is similar to the butterfly feeling that one might have when going on a rollercoaster ride or a similar variant. The anticipation might make you anxious or nervous in a non-negative way. And this rush is why some people actually break off relationships after a while because that feeling does tend to fade after a while for many people. As they essentially become addicted to that feeling, more so than valueing the actual person and the relationship that comes after the initial butterfly-filled interaction. The important question therefor is what kind of nervousness you’re feeling? If you’re uncomfortable or afraid for some reason? You might want to figure out why this is. Potentially talk to your boyfriend about it. On the other hand if it is butterflies / anticipation? You can still talk about it, but you can also enjoy this stage of the relationship while it lasts. There is an inherent level of excitement especially earlier on in relationships as you’re still feeling your way around. I wouldn’t say that nervousness is inherently a good or a bad sign as it can be either way. But assuming there are no real red-flags I would say this is natural anxiety. Especially when you haven’t had many relationships it is natural to be a little nervous that you might do something stupid or silly, or being afraid that the person you’ve developed feelings for might think poorly of things you say or do. But it is this feeling that also makes such relationships interesting.

ou're just worried about losing him so you panic and try way too hard. If he's stayed with you for 8 months then you must be doing something right. He obviously likes you for who you are, so just relax and be yourself. If you try to hard it could just end up backfiring on you. You could end up acting too nervous or doing something out of character that your boyfriend might not like. Just keep reassuring yourself that he's not going to leave because he likes (or loves, you didn't specify) you! He wouldn't have stayed with you this long if he didn't. Just keep repeating it back to yourself, yes even out loud! If you can give yourself positive affirmations like that eventually it will sink into your subconscious and you won't be so worried anymore.

Maybe you just haven't established a real emotional confectionery. You may have doubts about the relationship or him, even if it's not a major problem and it may be best to just talk to him.

Sounds like you are experiencing some anxiety. You may be worried that something will not go as planned, etc. I feel as though telling him that you are nervous around him may help ease the stress, and he will probably understand, and you two can work together for you to feel less nervous around him.

I dont want to make any mistakes around him. I wouldnt want to make a fool of myself. That would be silly. lol

Sometimes being around people you really like can induce anxiousness. It's all normal, however there are ways to manage this. Typically the more time you spend together, the less nervous you will be!

Because you care about his opinion, and you want him to like you. Its okay to be nervous, because it shows you care, but if you ever need to talk about how to get past this, I'm here

Well, people can not exactly give you any answers to a "Why" question like this but I would encourage you to explore a bit deeper into your guys relationship and start pointing out and remembering specific moments that make you nervous. Sooner or later you might pick up on something.

You don't want to be rejected. It's okay it's normal. Try to trust him and open up to him. Be friends with him. Make him some one you want to share all of your secrets with.