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Why am I so nervous around my boyfriend?

Profile: delightfulBreeze55
delightfulBreeze55 on Apr 10, 2018
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Maybe you are not comfortable around him yet. Sit down and write a list of the reasons why you think you are.
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Anonymous on Apr 13, 2018
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Need a bit more info here. Is it a new relationship? That can be intimidating, but gets easier with time. Is he doing something that makes you uncomfortable? That is a red flag, you need to be open and talk.
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Anonymous on Apr 21, 2018
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Maybe it's a good nervous or that your no used to the relationship yet but if you've been in the relationship a while it may be something he does or you may feel pressure about something in your relationship which you shouldnt.
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joyfulMoment29 on Apr 25, 2018
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Seeing a biggest part of your life is choosing your life partner because a parent carry u a maximum of 25 years later Ur life partner is the one who carry u in arms till the death so try to be so free with him if u couldn't tell him try to interact..
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foxesandfeathers on May 24, 2018
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There may be multiple reasons for feeling nervous around a partner 1. If he is a relatively new boyfriend you might just need to get to know each other better. Take the time to learn more about him, and tell him more about yourself and you should begin to feel a lot more comfortable around him. 2. He may make you feel inadequate. If your boyfriend makes you feel as though you should be nervous, by making you feel that you should compete for his attention or that you are not worthy in any way, you should not take this lightly. Ultimately, try to assess what the nervousness you feel around him is associated with, in order to determine whether the cause is healthy or not.
Profile: AverageJoe1989
AverageJoe1989 on Jun 21, 2018
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Is it a new relationship? if so that would be normal. If not, ask yourself what is making you nervous specifically. Also, communicate with your boyfriend. Communication is key to a successful healthy relationship.
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JustAShortGirl on Jun 23, 2018
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Im also nervous and looking for answers. Its not that i dont like him, its just we've never been alone for a long time and i don't want it to get awkward.
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QuestionAnswerer on Jun 30, 2018
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Your reason might not be the same as mine, but what I find is that I’m super nervous around my boyfriend because I don’t want to embarass myself or do anything that would make him judge me or think less of me. Sometimes it gets so bad that I dont even talk to him at all! This can create fights and arguments and maybe even breakups. So my advice to myself and others is suck it up, tough love. Hes you’re boyfriend he loves you. He won’t judge you. The reason you get nervous is because you just like him SO much!! But you have to talk to him and get over being nervous.
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Anonymous on Jun 30, 2018
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Has your boyfriend ever done anything that could trigger you to feel nervous around him, such as shouting at you or physical abuse?
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Anonymous on Jul 3, 2018
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Can you tell me more about what makes you feel nervous around your boyfriend? Are you saying that you feel fearful, or more like you feel self-conscious?
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