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Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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if it's a new relationship i think it's normal. everyone gets nervous sometimes. Are you scared of losing her? Afraid of being intimate?
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Profile: NotDownYet
NotDownYet on Jun 21, 2015
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I think it could be that you are worried about something which involves her. It could be that you are keeping something from her, or that you are worried that she will act a certain way and set you off. Either way, it's from my personal experience that you should try to get to the bottom of it, pinpoint when you get nervous around her. By doing this, you can figure out more precisely what is making you nervous, and then you can figure out how to solve it TOGETHER. Please, let them help you in this, you don't have to go it alone, even if it's them that makes you nervous.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 21, 2015
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Perhaps you fear rejection. When I first met my boyfriend, I was really nervous because he ex was beautiful. I just spent more time around him, and after a couple of dates I felt incredibly comfortable around him.
Profile: meditatingelephant96
meditatingelephant96 on Jun 21, 2015
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Being nervous around your partner or love interest is natural. It's natural to be nervous because you want to convey the best side of yourself to them. It shows your compassion towards them and the need to impress them. Nervousness will eventually reduce, the longer you are around one another, but accept it's a part of human emotion.
Profile: EmmeyPea
EmmeyPea on Jun 24, 2015
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Do you like your girlfriend? Do you want to make her happy? If so, that's great! :) Being concerned about doing these things is like getting nervous before a test: you want to make sure you have the right things to say! But unlike for a test, you don't need to study up on how to be yourself. She's dating you for you, so answering in a "you" sort of way will probably be the perfect thing to say.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 24, 2015
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Maybe you have anxiety. Or maybe you don't want to embarrass yourself in front of her. It's normal to be nervous with your loved one , no shame about that.
Profile: meboysen
meboysen on Jun 25, 2015
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It could be a lot of reasons. She could mean a lot to you and you don't want to mess anything up. Or she could intimidate you. Whatever the reason, it's important to feel comfortable around the ones you love.
Profile: Soothinglistener93
Soothinglistener93 on Jun 25, 2015
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There can be several reasons for this. You could be inexperienced. You might feel inadequate. You might feel untrusting. In the end, you are the expert on you. Look inside and find out what your nervousness means.
Profile: Expositorer
Expositorer on Jun 25, 2015
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You will get nervous around your girlfriend because you are scared to make a single silly mistake that will cause your relationship to get looser and worse.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 25, 2015
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Well love gets you high .trust me.especially when you have a beautiful girl who you have been crushing for long.I t is more often when you feel that she deserves better . At such moment you have got to embrace yourself and feel good about yourself.
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