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Anonymous on Jan 2, 2016
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If you always feel nervous around your girlfriend, there's a chance you haven't established a close enough relationship to feel comfortable around her. Do everything you can to make your relations with her more like the relations you have with people you're comfortable with. This may include sharing stories, spending more time together, or getting to know each other on a more personal level. Communication is key! With time and care, you'll get to be more comfortable with her, and it will strengthen your relationship immensely.
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Anonymous on Jan 2, 2016
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You wanna impress her, but you do not know how to do it. You fear you might do something embarassing.
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blanket7 on Jan 30, 2016
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You dont want to mess up in front of her, you want to impress her which is okay. It's totally normal to be nervous around the one you love.
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Anonymous on Mar 14, 2016
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That's a question only you hold the answer to. There are various triggers that can cause your anxiety. Try to pay attention to what exactly is causing you to be nervous around your girlfriend. Speak wth her about the issue as well.
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Anonymous on Mar 20, 2018
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You can be nervous around your girlfriend because they may done something that concerned you, they said something they shouldn't have said, or even you may think something bad will come out when your around them.
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delightfulShiny35 on Jun 4, 2018
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You internally some times feels whether I deserve her. Or you might have slight anxiety whether she will like my behavior today / in this circumstances
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nightFlower81 on May 21, 2015
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Being in a relationship is a big step in life. Your goal is to try to connect with a person that you really don't know all that well, and find the commonalities between the two of you. That requires a lot of talking, and spending time together participating in activities. Having a girlfriend means that you have to also give a little piece of yourself to another person. All of this can cause a bit of anxiety until a comfort level is reached. This may take some time depending on how much you both open up to each other, and the type of activies you do together. For example, going to the movies is a great way to spend time together, but it doesn't really allow that 1 on 1 face time to really get to know one another. The nervousness will eventually subside once a comfort level is reached!
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Anonymous on Jun 5, 2015
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Some people are nervous around their girl friend because maybe they think she will up and leave or maybe she won't like you for some reason and break up with you. Their are all kinds of reasons too be nervous around your girlfriend.
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lovelystrings16 on Jun 19, 2015
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You love her and you want to impress her. It means that you are a good boyfriend. It also means that you should do something special for the both of you. Getting to know her better will make you less nervous. Good luck!
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allnaturalLove22 on Jun 19, 2015
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That can be caused from anxiety. Like me I couldn't eat around my boyfriend or anything because I was always so nervous, however I got over it.
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WonderlandRabbit on Jun 19, 2015
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There are a variety of reasons why you may be nervous around your girlfriend. Maybe youre afraid of disappointing her.
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Rachawwl on Jun 19, 2015
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This is normal ! Especially in the early beginnings of a relationship. Or maybe at the beginning of a sexual relationship.
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BrokenDefinition on Jun 19, 2015
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It's a normal feeling to be nervous around those we like! Though if you're feeling nervous out of fear I advise you seek the advice of a close friend or professional. You should never have to feel unsafe in a relationship!
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Anonymous on Jun 19, 2015
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Maybe you aren't as comfortable with her or it could be that you love her so much that you still feel the first stages of love such as butterflies and stuff.
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Anonymous on Jun 19, 2015
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Maybe you are nor confident about her love towards you, and you're afraid to do anything to upset her. You should relax and have faith in her love towards you. She loves you as you are
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Anonymous on Jun 19, 2015
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Sounds like you like her a lot! There's no reason to be nervous around her. She's with you because she likes you too, so don't worry about having to impress her because you already did! Because you like her and it's an innate psychological response. I think you should just take things easy and focus on being comfortable around her. I can't speak for you, but when I've dated a girl and I feel nervous it is usually because I can't tell what she's thinking. I want her to like me, but I don't want to appear needy. It can be very hard to attract and keep someone's interest!
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Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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Well, it could be lots of reason's to why. The word Why is a endless path's to the word WHAT IF. They shore the same feel and the pointless question to your self. But that was a Personal suggestion on my part. To really find the issue just be open to your self and how you feel and write each thing down. Even questions that you want or would like to know more from her. This can help you build a better relationship. And rise your self-esteem as well.
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lacecierra2 on Jun 20, 2015
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I would say that it is because you don't want to make a fool out of yourself in front of someone you like. It is perfectly normal :)
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Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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I think you're nervous around your girlfriend because you have positive feelings towards her, so you're afraid of doing something wrong when you're with her that will maybe lead her to like you less. But if she loves you, you don't need to worry about that.
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Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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You're nervous because you want her to really like you and you want to make a good impression. Being nervous meansbyou care, and that's good. You could tell her about it and I'm sure you'd feel a lot less nervous.
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