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Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 22, 2016
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It's alright to be nervous as long as your are not too nervous if you find yourself sweeting a lot or so nervous you can't even talk to her just take deep breaths and think I can do this. For real girls think it is kind of cute for a guy to be nervous because they are probably nervous too.
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Anonymous on Jan 22, 2016
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It is a natural tendency to want our partner to see us as perfection and this could result in the sense of nervousness with someone we care and love.
Profile: StefanTheBoy
StefanTheBoy on Jan 27, 2016
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Maybe you feel insecure. You think that your girlfriend is prettier than you and you start to think like " Maybe she will find someone better than me." Or,you love her so much that you are afraid you will do a mistake and will end up with a break-up.
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Anonymous on Jan 28, 2016
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You may be really scared she wont like what you like and i hope you found somebody that you feel really cares
Profile: ANewFriend95
ANewFriend95 on Jan 28, 2016
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You can really like her and it is okay to be nervous. You just have to be yourself and if she likes you back then that is great. If not it is okay because there are plenty of people who will like you for you. It is okay to be nervous! ☺
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Anonymous on Feb 4, 2016
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Wow I can relate to this one ;) I think it may be for different reasons. Personally, I felt nervous because she was really beautiful and I felt really overwhelmed all the time yknow? Although it was also because she was really special and she made me feel lovely but sometimes I would kinda just doubt everything she said because of my own neurotic tendancies. And sometimes, its just because they're new for you! But it does get easier believe me, if you like her a lot thenci would say stay with her
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being nervous around someone may be because you still have some things that are not comfortable to show to her but that's not always the case so, don't worry. :)
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Anonymous on Feb 7, 2016
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It's natural to want to impress someone you like. You want them to like you back and it is far easier to dredge up all the reasons someone would not like you than it is to focus on the reasons someone would like you. Be natural. Be confident. Know that there is something that your girlfriend already really likes about you and all she wants is for you to share more of your thoughts and feelings - not less because you're nervous.
Profile: DestinyWillHelp
DestinyWillHelp on Mar 21, 2016
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You probably love her so much you're afraid to lose her. I had the same issue in the beginning but I talked to her, and now we are in a very good relationship without worrying about her leaving.
Profile: InfiniteSelf
InfiniteSelf on Jun 7, 2016
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You are the only person that can give valid reasons to your own emotions. I know when it comes to my own relationships the start causes me so much anxiety. The desire to come off in a desirable yet true manner is one of the things I believe cause the most anxiety in relationships.
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