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Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?

Profile: royalSun94
royalSun94 on Dec 26, 2015
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She might be mirroring my moods and is waiting for me to snap out of the nervouseness. We all have to recognize not everytime is going to be happy. In order to get to happy we must go through the sadness first.
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Profile: goldfinch25
goldfinch25 on Dec 27, 2015
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I would need more information but generally speaking when you (in general) are nervous around someone then it means that you have expectations that you worry she will not meet or you are afraid that she has expectations that you cannot meet. This can be said for anything and not just for relationships. The best action to do is to reflect on any past instances that caused you to be nervous.
Profile: Chevellewalker
Chevellewalker on Dec 27, 2015
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It could be due to a number of reasons one that you live her and u don't want to hurt her. It also could be many other things.
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Try gaining confidence and vbe calm when ur ariund. Try noticing what she says and what body language she is having. Ur nervous coz u r alwaz cautious about urself and worried about her reaction. But dont think like that. Rather be confident and very calm. Listen to her first and then speak and act But dont be a dumb and have ur own tone. Lip it simple 😉
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 27, 2015
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You might be shy to show who you really are to them but you should just be your self. If your not being your self then it's not worth it.
Profile: calmLove29
calmLove29 on Dec 27, 2015
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because you care about her opinion, relax if she really cares about you, she won't judge you.
Profile: CT95
CT95 on Dec 30, 2015
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Depends on why you are nervous. Could just be that sweet nervousness you get when you're in love, or you might just be scared and very cautious about the things you say and do.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 30, 2015
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If your nervous it could just mean you really like her nothing to worry about, but you do need to get over this is you want to grow in the relationship.
Profile: salomons
salomons on Dec 31, 2015
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Maybe you want to be the best person you can be around your girlfriend and that takes a lot of effort. Just relax and be yourself.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 31, 2015
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You could really like her and want everything to be perfect for her and so you get nervous that you're going to mess something up - try to relax, I'm sure you're doing great!
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