Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?
Anonymous
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Dec 12, 2015
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Because she makes you happy and you want to be perfect for her. Being nervous is good, because it means you love her.
MiraculousShiny62
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Dec 15, 2015
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The nervousness comes from the fear that you may not be liked by your girlfriend. The feeling is quite normal and should pass once you and your girlfriend have established a good communication pattern. Communication is the single most ingredient to a successful relationship. Simply telling someone how you feel relieves much of the nervousness between you. Telling her you are nervous will open up the discussion. In all likelihood, she may be as nervous as you are.
Anonymous
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Dec 16, 2015
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Maybe she was a friend for so long and now you're dating it feel different so you don't know how to act
clh2os
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Dec 17, 2015
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There are many reasons. Often, we can be nervous around our partner because we are vunerable. When our hearts get involved, it opens us up to new feelings--good and bad. Learn to enjoy the ride!
JoeMarlo
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Dec 17, 2015
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It could be based around a sense of commitment or you could worry about embarrassing yourself in front of them and losing your connection or getting laughed at, both of which are highly unlikely if the girl is kindhearted and likes you for you.
MrRoboticWrites
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Dec 17, 2015
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It could be any number of things. It might be nervous excitement, you might be nervous that you'll do something to mess it up. You might want to think of all the reasons that might make you nervous about her.
ashbradbury42
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Dec 17, 2015
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I think you're nervous around your girlfriend because you love/like her and maybe that's new for you.
SmileMitten
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Dec 17, 2015
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Nervousness is pretty natural, especially if you haven't been with her for a long time. The nervousness stems from feelings of self-consciousness or doubt. "Just be yourself" is easier said than done. If you're close enough to your girlfriend you can talk to her about the anxiety. Sometimes just admitting it helps to make it go away. Anxiety and secrets are things that just get worse the more you try to push them away. Good luck!!
Anonymous
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Dec 19, 2015
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It can be just because you love her and you may feel scared because if you do something wrong she may got offended.
rainyLight38
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Dec 20, 2015
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Probably because you want to look good for her and you want to impress her. You don't want her to think you're dumb or weak. Because you want to make the best impression you possibly can, you get nervous around your girlfriend
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