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Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?

Profile: quiescentvibes
quiescentvibes on Aug 9, 2015
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Sometimes we feel we must put on a show. Possibly, you feel she wont be interested with your true self. Which should not be the case, be yourself ! If she/he doesn't like what they TRULY see... he/she is not meant for you! Move on and find someone who likes the TRUE you 😊
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Profile: Sammy01
Sammy01 on Aug 9, 2015
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Probably because you want to make a good impression on her, since it's important to you that she likes you. That's completely normal at the start of a relationship. However, if you've been dating for some time and you still feel this way, something's probably off. In that case it's probably worth discussing with her.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 9, 2015
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You may be nervous around her because you like her so much and don't want to mess up. (Which you really can't). :)
Profile: heretohelp356
heretohelp356 on Aug 12, 2015
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you can feel like you might want to impress her. so you might get anxious. it's totally normal.
Profile: trashcat
trashcat on Aug 12, 2015
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We are always worried that the people we love may leave us. So you are nervous that you make a mistake and that she will left you because of that.
Profile: Jenniferroseh98
Jenniferroseh98 on Aug 12, 2015
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The are many reasons why you may feel nervous around your girlfriend. The most common reason is that you have a lot of feelings for her and you are scared you may do something that will ruin your chances with her.
Profile: PepeLaRoux
PepeLaRoux on Aug 12, 2015
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It could be that you really like her and do not want to lose her. You might feel like you are not good enough.
Profile: Galina
Galina on Aug 13, 2015
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Why do YOU think this could be? There could be a number of reasons, not knowing you both personally it is hard to say. What is your initial gut feeling?
Profile: brightWords47
brightWords47 on Aug 13, 2015
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Being nervous around the opposite sex normally means you have a attraction to them! Don't be nervous
Profile: kittykat
kittykat on Aug 13, 2015
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There are a lot of answers to this, and they all depend on the specifics in your relationship! Your nervousness might be caused by a feeling of "butterflies" or shyness in your romantic relationship, which is common. It may also be caused by various anxieties. If you're anxious around your girlfriend, you should try to have clear and open communication with her so that you can both understand where the anxieties are coming from and learn to combat them.
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