Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?
Anonymous
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Jul 23, 2015
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I sounds as though you may be feeling insecure. Do you feel as though you are good enough for her? Do you maybe feel as though you are out of her league?
Vexst
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Jul 23, 2015
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This cannot be answered without a lot more details, you are anxious because you worry that something bad will happen, that is what anxiety is for we evolved the trait so that it could teach us when things have a negative impact, but the human mind does not always make logical evidence based decisions and sometimes is just paranoid.
Anonymous
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Jul 23, 2015
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It's most probably because you really like her, it's the 'butterfly' phase, you enjoy her company, she's very special to you which is why you get nervous, it's a good thing! C:
Celeste101
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Jul 24, 2015
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If you are nervous around your girlfriend because you love her and she makes you feel special, that is so beautiful and you have nothing to be worried about! However if you are nervous around your girlfriend because she hits or controls you, that is a different story. Love should never hurt.
Anonymous
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Jul 24, 2015
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It can be as simple as a lack of confidence in your ability to please the girlfriend by way of chat etc.instead of trying to say something witty or smart ask her about something that is about her...If she is a student ..ask about what draws her to her subject.If she works ask her about her work.Talk about her will give you food for thought as to how to please her conversation wise...Nearly everybody gets nervous with new g/f's...it is very normal and can be overcome with just a little application....If you can identify just one thing she likes you can develop a conversation from there...it takes a little effort..and it is worth it.
thedancerwithin
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Jul 24, 2015
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There can be many reasons, but being nervous around your girlfriend isn't necessarily a bad thing. You could just be a really caring person who just really wants to be the best for her and you're just afraid that you won't be good enough. It can actually be an endearing thing. On the other hand, if you feel something's not right then you need to assess the relationship between you and your girlfriend. It could be that she's really domineering etc...
Anonymous
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Jul 25, 2015
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when you really care about someone your relationship becomes so much more important and that means there's more pressure which makes you nervous
Anonymous
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Jul 25, 2015
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Being nervous around someone you like is so common. You're nervousness may be caused out of a feeling that you need to do everything right around her. Try to relax and get more comfortable. Being completely comfortable with a person takes time.
lovelylistener155
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Jul 25, 2015
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Perhaps it's because you want to impress her and you're anxious that she won't be pleased with how you are, it's normal don't worry :)
StephSnake1582
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Jul 25, 2015
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Its a normal part of a relationship! I still get nervous around my boyfriend and its. Been two years. It's common especially in the beginning relationships. Its usually because we think we'll embarrass ourselves in front of them but have confidence! You arent alone and. It'll calm down once you get more comfortable around her
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