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Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?

Profile: Ben199
Ben199 on Jul 8, 2015
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We want to be accepted, loved and sometimes this will make us anxious. Especially with someone you admire deeply such as a girlfriend.
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Profile: coldplayluver
coldplayluver on Jul 8, 2015
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I got nervous because I have a lot of baggage that I wasn't telling them about. I wasn't fully being honest with my partner about my feelings or my past, so it was hard to connect with them. When I thought about them knowing my secrets, I was worried that they would feel less about me or judge me.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 8, 2015
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Because you are too excited. It's normal because you are in love with her. And its also normal to feel like vomiting.
Profile: TruthPrevails
TruthPrevails on Jul 8, 2015
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If you are nervous around your girlfriend it probably means you don't feel at ease with her and you do a lot of pretending, acting,etc around her to keep a relationship going. In that sense it isn't a healthy relationship. Because in a healthy relationship you and your partner must feel like one when around together communicating, doing activities together and doing things in common which both nurtures, progresses your relationship while making it more mature. It shouldn't feel so energy draining. If there are problems, try speaking with your girlfriend because open communication is a necessity in a relationship and the intentions of two parties must be very clear.
Profile: Tiffany8907
Tiffany8907 on Jul 8, 2015
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You may be nervous, because you have to want to please or make her happy. You may be to concerned about her being upset. This may depend on how long you have had this feeling. Situation may be different.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 8, 2015
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If you suffer with anxiety or insecurities, they can follow you in a relationship, even with someone you are comfortable with. I would advise you to read our Anxiety guide. Also If your comfortable enough, talk to your girlfriend I'm sure they'll understand.
Profile: Emily619
Emily619 on Jul 9, 2015
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You are nervous around your girlfriend because you are scared and anxious that you will make the weong move, or turn her off/disappoint her. Its a typical feeling, no worries!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 9, 2015
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Well if you're new to dating or even if you just met her recently it can always be awkward at first. Just give it time.
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Because you probably want to be the best for her. You are also both focused on each other when you're together so you feel anxious about every move you make.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 9, 2015
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Are you comfortable around her? Maybe you don't know as you thought you do? Insecurity? all these can cause you to be insecure. If it is a new relationship it is kind of natural, you'll get over it
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