What if I am not good at what I love to do?
TheGreyFixer
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Apr 13, 2016
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If you have found what you love, first of all, I would like to applaud you. It can take many people a long time to figure out, as strange as that may sound. Secondly, I would like to point out that no one gets anywhere without a large amount of hard work. Even these so-called "naturally talented" people you see around will have had to put in work to get where they are now. For some, it's easier than for others. For those others, it can be a lot harder. Never give up on what you love. But don't feel like you have to stagnate, either. Seek new ways to get better at what you love. If it's art, or music, try a free life-drawing class or join a group. If it's sports, find events to take part in or try out a new workout. If it's algebraic equations, find workbooks on the internet. The possibilities are endless. But don't let yourself be downcast because you're comparing yourself to others or having trouble progressing. If you're doing it because it makes you happy, just do it.
mindfulBeing92
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Apr 14, 2016
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Take it as a lesson learned. There is always time to learn a new trade, and to find a new passion that may be relative to what you previously had wanted.
Lina16
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Apr 14, 2016
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You don't have to be good at something to enjoy it. Having fun is a lot more important that being good at something. :)
BlueSky101
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Apr 15, 2016
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Well, you have to keep trying to be better. Expert in anything was once a beginner! You will - mostly - fail in the beginning. But eventually, you will be good (very good probably) at what you love to do!
Anonymous
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Apr 16, 2016
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If you don't like one of the things your interested try another of your interest and find a way you can approach it in a different way.
Anonymous
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Apr 20, 2016
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We will always put more effort into what we love doing, because love is passion and passion is fuel. Even if you do not start out good, you will become good or even excellent. no one starts perfect at what they love doing, but it is the fact that they love it, that makes them work for it and sooner or later excel! Believe in yourself and follow your passion :)
thisrideisawildone
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Apr 21, 2016
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Recognise why you feel that you aren't good at it - chances are it is just your personal perception, and whether you are good or not is subjective anyway. If you enjoy what you are doing, and have a passion for it - that is the most important thing. Passion is rare, and doing something you love helps so so much. Don't give that up because you feel you may not be good enough - because you always are good enough.
Anonymous
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Apr 22, 2016
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If you love to do it, then you should keep doing it.If it makes you happy, dont let it go.Success comes after fails.
booklover1224
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Apr 27, 2016
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No one is good at what they love right away. Try your best and take it one step at a time. Practice, not just instinct, is what makes you good at something.
AbraxasM
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Apr 27, 2016
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If you love doing something, it doesn't matter are you good at it or not as long as you're happy. :)
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