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Should I tell my husband I cheated on him?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 18, 2016
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Your husband is your accountability partner. You are married because you ultimately love each other. Through thick and thin, I'm positive he still loves you, and its truly willing to forgive you: wether that's cheating on him or saying something negative.
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Profile: JoyfulForestRain
JoyfulForestRain on Mar 20, 2016
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That is up to you to make that decision. Do what is best for you and those around you. Think about how you would feel if you were in the position he was in. Would you tell you?
Profile: SingingPhoenix
SingingPhoenix on Mar 21, 2016
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As much as you wouldn't want him to know, it just would be better in the end. There will still be hurt and things but I always think honesty is the best policy.
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Anonymous on Mar 24, 2016
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I would be honest and open with him. Honesty is always the best policy. Wouldnt you want the same honesty if he did that?
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Anonymous on Mar 25, 2016
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Yes, you should tell you husband that you cheated on him . Not telling him could make things worse for you .
Profile: couragetogo
couragetogo on Mar 27, 2016
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Honesty is important. Walk in his shoes for a few steps and ask yourself if you would like to know. It may not be the most comfortable way but it is less harmful then lying and having him developing trust issues by himself until they get approved when he finds it out.
Profile: YellowDaffies
YellowDaffies on Apr 1, 2016
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Only you can answer what the best choice is. For any decision, can you live with who you and your past actions and be comfortable with yourself? Imagine the scenarios and how they might play out for you, and for you husband, if you tell him or don't tell him. If he finds out later, or if he never knows. How would you feel about yourself and what do you imagine your life would be in those situations?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 3, 2016
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Yes you should. Although it may be hard, secrets in a relationship don't usually work out so well.
Profile: cupcake1234
cupcake1234 on Apr 3, 2016
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I think you should. Because honestly, if there is something to save then this is the only way for you to save it. And if there isn't, then you might as well move on. In either case, don't doubt your character.
Profile: StephSnake1582
StephSnake1582 on Apr 3, 2016
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It depends. If you feel like you have enough trust in him that he won't go off on you. But honestly is the best policy in a relationship. It also depends If it was a one time thing or ongoing. It's completly up to you and how strong your relationship is
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