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Is my partner "good enough"or my relationship "real"?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 1, 2015
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Hard to answer this with limited info but i always say make sure you fully love yourself before you even think about relationships
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Profile: courageousJoy86
courageousJoy86 on Apr 3, 2018
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Love is a concept that is defined differently by everyone. Only you can figure out what it means to you. If it matters, if he\she makes you both the saddest and the happiest person at the same time, if you feel safe and protected and loved and cherished around them, then it's real. The world only exists in your head, after all, and you can make it as big or as small as you want to
Profile: Geveda
Geveda on Mar 3, 2015
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It depends, are you happy? There shouldn't be any standards besides the ones you set, it doesn't matter what other people think. As long as you feel safe, healthy, and happy with this other person, then that's all that matters. If you're having doubts on it being any of those, then it may be best to look into why that is.
Profile: janewolf
janewolf on Apr 13, 2015
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This is something you'll know in your gut. It's one thing to wish it's the real deal and another to know it is. I recently got out of a relationship that was "good enough", and while I'm still adjusting to the changes in my routine, I'm so much happier. I encourage all of you to think long and hard to figure out how you feel about your relationships and go from there. Are you comfortable, or in love? These are two very different things. You can love someone and be comfortable with them. It takes some soul searching to find out how you feel though. Really look at yourself and your relationship, and try to distinguish whats comfortable vs in love.
Profile: GoldenDragonEyes60
GoldenDragonEyes60 on May 6, 2015
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That depends. Do YOU feel that your partner is "good enough"? Do YOU feel that your relationship is "real"? That's a question that you're going to have to ask yourself to determine whether or not your relationship is worth pursuing.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 8, 2015
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The best person to answer this question is YOU! You know yourself best. Do you feel like the person you are with makes you happy? Remember that the person doesn't need to be the perfect person; (s)he just needs to be the perfect person for you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 29, 2015
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Does your partner treat you with respect, loyalty, and accept you? Did they do/do they do anything that makes you uncomfortable? Does it seem they use you in anyway?
Profile: kimmy500
kimmy500 on Feb 22, 2016
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You don't feel like your partner is good enough to be in a real relationship? wanna tell me a little bit more about this problem?
Profile: GoddessOfBlossoms
GoddessOfBlossoms on Apr 28, 2016
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Only YOU knows that. If you're happy with him and comfortable with him. We cannot easily tell that it is real but it can be tested by time and how strong your relationship is despite of circumstances. Just give time for it. You should know that there is no perfect persons and relationships. You should be ready to accept, trust and understand each other.
Profile: cloudconnection
cloudconnection on Jun 13, 2016
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That depends on you, is your relationship sincere and healthy and if so I would have to say yes of course.
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