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Is it okay to avoid situations that make me anxious, or is that giving up to it?

Profile: KindOfAFriend
KindOfAFriend on Jun 9, 2018
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No it is ok if you don’t feel ready to do things that make you anxious. If it needs more time: rest or talk about it till you feel strong enough to face it.
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Profile: AllRainbowsAreMagic
AllRainbowsAreMagic on Jun 9, 2018
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It may feel like you are giving up, and sometimes you might be. Try and stay, particularly if it affects your work, but rather take the time out, than panic too much.
Profile: Ana4hear
Ana4hear on Jun 9, 2018
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Avoiding situations that makes you anxious is not a solution. If you avoid it it’s going to grow but if you face it, you will get strong to face it. Courage is not easy but is the answer. Running away is easy but not a solution.
Profile: Becca76
Becca76 on Jun 9, 2018
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You could make a deal with yourself - you’ll attend the situation for a certain amount of time, and if you become too anxious you’ll leave after that. Avoiding them completely will make it harder to go along in the long run
Profile: juniper20
juniper20 on Jun 20, 2018
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Its totally okay to avoid situations that trigger your anxiety. Take it one step at a time. Tell yourself what you will do if you do get in that situation, and then one day you will feel like you can actually approach it.
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Avoiding situations that make you anxious is not giving up on them. It's a lot like not touching a hot pan with your bare hand because it'll burn you. Why would you purposefully go into a situation if you know it'll make you uncomfortable or cause you to panic? But that is not to say that you shouldn't work at becoming more comfortable in certain situations--like talking to new people, entering a group conversation, interacting with co-workers or peers, etc.-- if you think that that is something you can achieve through that course of action. If you want to and believe that you will be able to get yourself used to the things that cause you to become anxious, then, by all means, go for it. But, if you honestly don't see that as an option for you, then it isn't giving up if you don't pursue it, it's simply avoiding situations that you cannot handle. If you don't have that "oven-mitt", which some people don't, then I would consider avoiding the hot pan as completely normal.
Profile: beautifulbird
beautifulbird on Jun 23, 2018
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it is most definitely okay to avoid situations that make your anxiety levels rise! its more than okay, in fact its great. you need to pick your battles, and you dont have to voluntarily put yourself in uncomfortable situations if you dont want to, its totally okay. as long as you feel safe you're good to go. however, try to get out of your comfort zones sometimes! its good for you, you should be able to tell when to stop pushing yourself, just take care of yourself
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 24, 2018
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It depends on how you feel at the time. If you feel you can cope with the emotions that situation brings up, then carry on. It might also go some way of helping you deal with that kinda situation in the future. But if you need to distance yourself, then that's okay too. You're not giving up, you're just not letting the negativity get to you.
Profile: MyChemicalKlance
MyChemicalKlance on Jun 24, 2018
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It's okay to avoid situations that make you anxious, but it it recommended that you give it a try first.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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do not give up and do not avoid them, you should seek help so you can be brave and bold, i can even help if you want.
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