Is it okay to avoid situations that make me anxious, or is that giving up to it?
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Moderated by Smita Joshi, BA Psychology / MA / Advanced EFT Practitioner
Updated: Apr 12, 2022
Anonymous
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May 2, 2018
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Its totally normal to avoid these situations, and you do not need to feel guilty. However, if you can, challenging your fears would be beneficial
Anonymous
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May 3, 2018
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No that is perfectly fine, if something is making you anxious and upset then it may not be worth it. Just make sure that you are happy
RayofSunshine25
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May 3, 2018
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It is okay to avoid situations that make you anxious. You don't want to force yourself into anything you don't want to do. However, it may sometimes help to take little steps to push your comfort zone, but make sure you come first.
MorganConstance
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May 4, 2018
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It's okay to avoid particular situations especially if they make you uncomfortable but not all of the time. Do it slowly, maybe introduce yourself to certain situations, expose yourself to them and do your best to cope even for a while. Slowly, it can help build your confidence and make situations that made you anxious in the past more manageable.
SummerGrace95
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May 4, 2018
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It is perfectly ok and great to avoid situations that make you anxious because then you are learning what your triggers are and protecting yourself from feeling negative. Excellent self-help strategy!
lime9226
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May 11, 2018
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It's not giving up! Always try to avoid situations (That you can afford to miss!) If you don't feel like going out with your friends just say no!
Anonymous
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May 13, 2018
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Its totally okay to try to avoid them, you should do whatever makes you feel good and comfy, dont feel bad for that. Of course trying to get out of your comfort zone can be a good thing, just try not to push yourself too much and take your time when you need it!
Have a great day.
Letsfeelbetteragain
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May 16, 2018
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Yes, it is okay to avoid things that make me anxious, be it a certain person or to a certain object that reminds me of unpleasant events. However, the way to conquer our fears, the best way is still to face it. The worst that could happen will be the things that happened.
QuirkyGirlSparks
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May 18, 2018
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You can't avoid the reality of life. You have to face it head on, so do things to try to make life more comfortable.
richyShiny39
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May 19, 2018
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Personal experience is therapy can give a face your fears approach where the therapist puts you in your fear allowing you to face head on with their help. It is good for most fears.
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