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Is it normal to feel more anxious when you're alone?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 17, 2020
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I am not a doctor. But, Yes (Depending on the context...but since I don't know who's asking I'll just spout out some answers, hopefully this post is helpful and versatile for everyone) Mental illnesses such as anxiety or depression both stem from overthinking. Anxiety roots from "what if?" questions and always keeping an extra mental tab on alert for threats. What happens when we are isolated and left alone with our thoughts is we tend to entertain them and dive into them, sometimes without even realizing. Before we know it, we are wondering why Sally from Bio was glaring at us and what if we were really born not enough. Because when we are not occupied with other tasks (which can be socializing), we can fall back into Thinking Traps. We begin to ruminate and dwell on baggage. Additionally, I know one thing that is common among people suffering from all ranges from mental illness is that they do tend to become much much more reserved than normal (which can be unhelpful to their condition). Another possibility is you could be experiencing some separation anxiety, or the fear of being alone. Have you ever been left by someone in the past? Do you ever fear others around you may leave based on previous trauma? Though I say it depends on the circumstances because some people find socializing draining(introversion) or even stress inducing (ie. they have social anxiety, or body dysmorphia, etc.), so it all depends on the person. But what you are feeling is completely normal, it makes sense and I'm sure many people share the same sentiment of feeling anxious when are(n't) alone (to whichever of the two you can relate to). :) Don't worry
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Profile: SpaceDino
SpaceDino on Jan 29, 2020
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It is definitely normal to feel more anxious when you're alone in my experience. When I am alone, that means I am left with my own thoughts and no distractions. My brain has more opportunity to jump to anxiety inducing thoughts and worries. I think it helps to have options lined up in advance for how you can keep distracted and engaged when you're alone. I like to have a list of possible activities so when I'm alone and anxious I do not have to brainstorm what to do, I just have to look at my list! Some examples from my personal list are: read a book, doodle, go for a walk, watch a movie, have a shower, listen to an album, write to a friend, call somebody, clean or organize the house, meditate, play a video game. I find it helps to keep busy.
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ambrosiuscosteau on Jan 31, 2020
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It's normal to feel anxious at any time. Like humans, it takes all different forms. The only thing you can do when feeling anxious is to keep going and get through it. You can't change how you feel in a day. It might take years for you to be completely better. Anxiety is a serious illness and a lot of people don't understand how it affects a person's life. Saying "It's all in your head!" "You're faking it for attention!" and the like. You shouldn't pay attention to them, or if you want to help someone you can try to teach them and change their minds. Although it's easier said than done.
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freshParadise8682 on Feb 26, 2020
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Yes, due to the fact that you’re alone and you appear to overthink more causing more anxiety. Being alone can make anxiety worse and produce more fears that bad things might happen. Also when you’re alone there isn’t anyone around to help calm you down over anxious thoughts or physical symptoms caused by anxiety. Panic attacks can also occur because of this. As unfortunate as it is it is completely normal to feel more anxious when you’re alone. Keeping yourself distracted and busy can help especially when there isn’t no one around to help you or to calm you
Profile: HappyBeach
HappyBeach on Mar 4, 2020
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I think it is because we are more in our minds. When we are alone we tend to overthink things and this leads to that place in your brains where anxious people go. We have to use distractions and learn to love ourselves so that when we are alone we are not self doubting or over thinking. I used to hate being alone and now I love it. Being alone gives me time for me; if I had told my other self that before I would have laughed or cried. Now I cherish those moments because being alone can be so relaxing and refreshing. I can be me. I can do what I want. I can just sit and not talk or have to be something for somebody else. It took me a long time to get here but I used distractions and stopped that over thinking and negative self talk of the big WHAT IF'S. If I can do it, anybody can do it! Small steps to get here but I got here and you can too.
Profile: zaatarHoney
zaatarHoney on Mar 11, 2020
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Well, if you cope through anxiety, it’s very common. “Normal” is an odd word to use even out of the mental health context, because.. everyone is so unique— everyone has different responses and perceptions of the world around them. You aren’t less normal because you cope through anxiety when alone. It seems like you could really use someone to talk to though, so if you haven’t already, seeking out support here at 7C could be a great option for you! ♡ There are many ways to cope through anxietjy when we feel it, no matter where we are or why it’s happening. Even when you are feeling anxious because you are physically alone, doesn’t mean you are ever alone in this. We’re here for you.
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NoelLikesSunsets on Mar 28, 2020
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Being alone can sometimes increase feelings of anxiety, as you may have less distraction from your thoughts. When you are around people, or doing an activity, your mind can focus on what the conversation is about, or the steps involved in the activity. When you're alone, you might be listening to your thoughts with a lot of focus, and that can increase the feeling of anxiety. It could feel like a one-sided conversation, perhaps. If the anxious feelings becomes overwhelming, try reaching out to talk to someone about your feelings, or watch a tv show to distract yourself from the thoughts!
Profile: SofiaT2000
SofiaT2000 on Apr 3, 2020
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Yes it is in some way. When you're alone and you do no activities, you start overthinking, especially about your fears and concerns. This can cause you to be more anxious when you're alone. In addition, being with friends helps you to forget about your problems, or share your thoughts with them and this reduces the anxiety that you're feeling. Your social role among others plays a very important role on how you feel as well. In order to stop feeling anxious when you are alone any kind of activity that you really enjoy and keeps your mind busy could be very helpful. Creativity is a really good way to express your feelings, to keep your mind busy and help you calm yourself down in longterm.
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plushUnicorn4912 on Jun 27, 2020
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Yes. It is normal to feel more anxious when alone. When you are with others, most of the time, your mind would be distracted from all your thoughts. If not, you'll be able to share your thoughts with other and they'd be there to validate them or telling you they're absurd, so you wouldn't give a second thought to them. When you're alone, if you don't discipline yourself, your mind can wander, pay attention to details, focus on things that might not be relevant but become relevant because you have no one to tell you if it's okay. Even with discipline, people can get easily lost in their thoughts and it's hard to not fixate on them. That's what could be causing you to feel more anxious when alone.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2020
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Personally I believe it is. It's incredibly hard when I'm alone to clear my thoughts and get rid of all that anxiety, and sometimes I just can't. I struggle with falling asleep at night because of this and I'm sure I am not the only one. Anxiety can be a real jerks sometimes. Normally I listen to music or something to distract myself, but sometimes that's not something I can do so I distract myself with hobbies. My parents don't seem to think that is a good idea and take them all away. They think I need to deal with the voices in my head without distractions to make things easier on me. I'm not so sure.
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